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I went clubbing the other night and got 3 phone numbers and 3 snogs in a 2 hour period. I was very happy as it included 2 twenty-year old babes who were friends.

Anyway, when following up on one of these people, she promised to call me the following day, after exchanging a couple of text messages. But she didn't. I think it might be because I asked her if she would like to continue the snogging around mine.

So, in a bid to get more solid game, what do you suggest about following up on girls you meet in clubs?

By the way, the culture in the UK involves lots of text messaging!

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Girl #1: i texted her asking if she wanted to continue the snogging. she replied asking where. i said at mine preferably. she replied saying she would have to decline on this occasion. I replied saying i would like to chat to her on the phone. and said dont call text if not interested.

she text me back saying she will call me tomorrow. she never did.

Girl #2: The 20 year old and i were texting back and forth lots. we spoke on the phone for 1 hour 2 nights ago. i text her last night about going out but no reply yet. she suggested saturday earlier in the week. anyway, that might still come off.

Girl #3: Still texting and arranging a meet up. that one is up to me if we go out or not.

im no AFC. but i do need to improve aspects of my game. by the way, i am 40 and managed to snog two 20 year olds in the same night so i cant be THAT bad!
 
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Girl 3 has just asked if I want to meet her tonight...

Well, I am here for alternative viewpoints on handling the after club stuff. So give them to me!

It didn't help that Girl 1 saw me chatting up 3 about 5 mins after snogging Girl 1. I had to do a bit of sweet talking with her! Perhaps that is what put her off.
 
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