"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My follow-up Game needs work

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I went clubbing the other night and got 3 phone numbers and 3 snogs in a 2 hour period. I was very happy as it included 2 twenty-year old babes who were friends.

Anyway, when following up on one of these people, she promised to call me the following day, after exchanging a couple of text messages. But she didn't. I think it might be because I asked her if she would like to continue the snogging around mine.

So, in a bid to get more solid game, what do you suggest about following up on girls you meet in clubs?

By the way, the culture in the UK involves lots of text messaging!

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl #1: i texted her asking if she wanted to continue the snogging. she replied asking where. i said at mine preferably. she replied saying she would have to decline on this occasion. I replied saying i would like to chat to her on the phone. and said dont call text if not interested.

she text me back saying she will call me tomorrow. she never did.

Girl #2: The 20 year old and i were texting back and forth lots. we spoke on the phone for 1 hour 2 nights ago. i text her last night about going out but no reply yet. she suggested saturday earlier in the week. anyway, that might still come off.

Girl #3: Still texting and arranging a meet up. that one is up to me if we go out or not.

im no AFC. but i do need to improve aspects of my game. by the way, i am 40 and managed to snog two 20 year olds in the same night so i cant be THAT bad!
 
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Girl 3 has just asked if I want to meet her tonight...

Well, I am here for alternative viewpoints on handling the after club stuff. So give them to me!

It didn't help that Girl 1 saw me chatting up 3 about 5 mins after snogging Girl 1. I had to do a bit of sweet talking with her! Perhaps that is what put her off.
 
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