"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My First Two Websites...Need advice.

The Bartender

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What up DJs, I always value the opinions of this board and would like you to critique, suggest, bash, praise...anything you got in terms of how these sites look and feel to navigate. I'm really new to the website thing and these are "rough" to me but good enough to host. They are "side projects" for now and not something I slave 10 hours a day modifying.

Plus I did this all using Mozilla on my 1152x864 something resolution. Let me know how it looks on IE (cant use it because it basically blows up my computer), mac, and smaller resolutions.

http://www.DuctFuct.com
http://www.TheReservoirBlogs.com


Thanks.

Some suggestions I've had off another forum:
-Code the page to center itself so different resolutions arent as skewed viewing the page.
-Drop adsense (not going to happen for now)
-Drop the flickr bar on DuctFuct (would love to eventually but need to increase my pictures)
-Fix links that dont work (I know which ones dont work)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Bartender

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Guys I had a comment on another forum saying the formating of the ads were all screwed up. Random-assed ads in weird places. To me it looks fine in Firefox, everything lines up. Can anyone verify in IE that this isnt all cracked out?
 

eminence

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this is a forum to pick up girls, not a good place to ask for tips about coding websites
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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eminence said:
this is a forum to pick up girls, not a good place to ask for tips about coding websites
Which is exactly why I put this in the "anything else" category. Plus I didnt ask anyone for "code" tips. Just looking for other opinions and views about the sites. Ppl ask about cars but I can point you to a million different sites for that too. Or health/food/games....
 

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eminence, please ban yourself.

Anyway, I have IE, they look great, man. Props.
 

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NightPUA said:
eminence, please ban yourself.

Anyway, I have IE, they look great, man. Props.

Thanks. I thought I fixed the prob but ya never know unless someone else tells ya.
 
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