"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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my first thread: how do you WIN the game?

el torro

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hi, everyone, have been observing this website for about 6months building up my inner game and confidence and reading the successes of bootcamps and the views in the DJ bible. I started off with D,D, ****y&funny but felt i needed more and so i just signed up today.

not really sure how to use a message board but i'll give it ago and hope i can lean a few things and hopfully teach a few things too.

anyway,

id like to ask a question...... realising that there are rules/guides to how to play games, i thought i'd check this out from a womans perspective and i found that the rules of attraction work both ways and some of their rules would conflict and make harder for us budding DJ's

my question is this......

if we're playing games.... how do we know who wins? is the victor the one who can force the other to give up their power in the relationship?

and what happens if you get a guy and girl who like each other but when they get home the guy goes on sosuave and the girl goes to some female equivilant and they both end up not going out because their too busy playing games with each other, eg playing hard to get/being a challange?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do we know who wins??

the guy wins if he gets layed!

the girl wins if you dont get layed and she gets your credit card!
 

el torro

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catch:

"How do we know who wins??

the guy wins if he gets layed!

the girl wins if you dont get layed and she gets your credit card!"

hahahahahahah thats good but, what about the deeper game? when its not just sex your after, but to win her heart? i thought this was the essence of being a don juan? making love to her mind as well as her body? (not to sound too AFC)

or is it all about sex?
 

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oh, you want to go deep....

deep into the art of mental seduction we shall go...

if your not just looking for sex, your looking to seduce the mind of women then don juan is the birth place of such an interest.

such a wide topic, i barely know where to start infact!

maybe with, the beginning of a seduction where the main target is to gain the curiosity and stir the desire of your victim?

or the leway into the middle of your web, where you lever the heart and leve her lost in an illusion of love, desperate for answers she hoplessly falls into a one way river of interest and lust!

or the end, when the bold move is skillfully adapted to the weakness of your target, the desire for pleasure!

there is only one that can win el torro, the seducer...
what you must ask is, who is the one being seduced?
 
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