"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My first rejection

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Hey guys i got rejected for like the first time today it felt kinda good afterwards
the girl said she had just got out of a relationship and one of her friends likes me(But she is black and im not into interacial) but i just wanted to say thanks to you guys for all the help and giving me the confidence to actually ask her out


thanks!:up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ztr1der said:
But she is black and im not into interacial
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This made me actually laugh out loud when I read it.

And congrats on the rejection. Reject feels better than regret is so true. And its a very good sign that you are able to brush it off like that.

The more confidence you have, the less it will bother you. There have been times when I have actually laughed from surprise when a girl rejects me.




The confident guy gets the girl.
 
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