"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My first rejection

Ztr1der

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Hey guys i got rejected for like the first time today it felt kinda good afterwards
the girl said she had just got out of a relationship and one of her friends likes me(But she is black and im not into interacial) but i just wanted to say thanks to you guys for all the help and giving me the confidence to actually ask her out


thanks!:up:
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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Five To One

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Ztr1der said:
But she is black and im not into interacial
This made me actually laugh out loud when I read it.

And congrats on the rejection. Reject feels better than regret is so true. And its a very good sign that you are able to brush it off like that.

The more confidence you have, the less it will bother you. There have been times when I have actually laughed from surprise when a girl rejects me.




The confident guy gets the girl.
 
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