"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My first cold-approach number-close

snowdog

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I know I'm starting a whole new thread for it, but I decided to put it in my journal instead:

Read it.

In that topic I post everything I experienced in terms of girls, also the less noteworthy stuff. It would just feel wrong to leave this one out.

And, this is a big enough thing for me to start a new thread about. So there you go. I just do both! :cool:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well done man! If you don't mind me asking though, how did you know to speak English to her, since you were in Rotterdam right?
 

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Oh or wait was this all done in Dutch? Sorry I just read that she came from London but that doesn't necessarily mean she can't speak Dutch.
 
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