"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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snowdog

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I know I'm starting a whole new thread for it, but I decided to put it in my journal instead:

Read it.

In that topic I post everything I experienced in terms of girls, also the less noteworthy stuff. It would just feel wrong to leave this one out.

And, this is a big enough thing for me to start a new thread about. So there you go. I just do both! :cool:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mars

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Well done man! If you don't mind me asking though, how did you know to speak English to her, since you were in Rotterdam right?
 

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Oh or wait was this all done in Dutch? Sorry I just read that she came from London but that doesn't necessarily mean she can't speak Dutch.
 
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