"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My First Approach

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Yesturday I was incrediably frustrated. I was home on a friday night, doing absolutely NOTHING. I felt like
sh!t.

So, I took action! I called up a friend and we went out! We hit the streets looking for chicks. We made about 5 approaches; we had fun while doing it, hehe.

Then I made my official approach on my own. It was successful. :)

I got the number and everything. I even walked her home. :D I found out... out of ALL places, she lives close by to my home.

I feel good... :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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er...congrats man... Go get some more before you fall back into your old routine...Its all easy from here...
 

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I called her a few hours ago to hang out; she was busy but said that she would call me later.

I received a "private call" from someone--since it was private I don't know from who, it could be anyone--but I didn't answer the phone because I didn't hear the ring--I was taking a nap.

So...the dj thing to do would be to ignore it and just continue with my day; right?

... am I never supposed to call back? I want to see her today; she was blatantly interested in me yesterday...


And there was this other girl who I hooked up with at the beach for an hour, or so. I don't know wtf is going on with her, either. I thought it was more than hook-up... I can't read her.
 

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Congrats on turning the night around.


So...the dj thing to do would be to ignore it and just continue with my day; right?
Yes.

Don't call her back so soon it makes you look kind of desperate. Wait a couple of days.
 

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with the approach where you walked the girl home, describe the opener, the conversation and the situation you were in like where you were , . like a fr i guess lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'll post the FR tomorrow, or on my break today; I have work to do.
 
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