"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My First Approach

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Yesturday I was incrediably frustrated. I was home on a friday night, doing absolutely NOTHING. I felt like
sh!t.

So, I took action! I called up a friend and we went out! We hit the streets looking for chicks. We made about 5 approaches; we had fun while doing it, hehe.

Then I made my official approach on my own. It was successful. :)

I got the number and everything. I even walked her home. :D I found out... out of ALL places, she lives close by to my home.

I feel good... :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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er...congrats man... Go get some more before you fall back into your old routine...Its all easy from here...
 
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I called her a few hours ago to hang out; she was busy but said that she would call me later.

I received a "private call" from someone--since it was private I don't know from who, it could be anyone--but I didn't answer the phone because I didn't hear the ring--I was taking a nap.

So...the dj thing to do would be to ignore it and just continue with my day; right?

... am I never supposed to call back? I want to see her today; she was blatantly interested in me yesterday...


And there was this other girl who I hooked up with at the beach for an hour, or so. I don't know wtf is going on with her, either. I thought it was more than hook-up... I can't read her.
 
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Congrats on turning the night around.


So...the dj thing to do would be to ignore it and just continue with my day; right?
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Yes.

Don't call her back so soon it makes you look kind of desperate. Wait a couple of days.
 
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with the approach where you walked the girl home, describe the opener, the conversation and the situation you were in like where you were , . like a fr i guess lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'll post the FR tomorrow, or on my break today; I have work to do.
 
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