"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My final assessment of swinging

Zarky

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True but wanting marriage and kids in today's world puts you at a big disadvantage. As the manosphere people say: with our current laws and social structure, now ain't the time to be getting married and having kids. You will get raped eventually by the system, emotionally and financially.

But whereas the manosphere guys whine and wring their hands over that fact, I embrace it. The world is playing into my desires perfectly. I don't want any of that sh*t, so the fact that it's a bad time to do it is not a problem for me. And, on the other hand, since women are getting sluttier and sluttier, I love it. That's what I'm looking for whereas they are looking for what isn't available anymore.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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zinc4

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so is Zarky really a guy or girl..i thought guy but everyone keeps saying girl on here..why?
 
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