"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My final assessment of swinging

Zarky

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True but wanting marriage and kids in today's world puts you at a big disadvantage. As the manosphere people say: with our current laws and social structure, now ain't the time to be getting married and having kids. You will get raped eventually by the system, emotionally and financially.

But whereas the manosphere guys whine and wring their hands over that fact, I embrace it. The world is playing into my desires perfectly. I don't want any of that sh*t, so the fact that it's a bad time to do it is not a problem for me. And, on the other hand, since women are getting sluttier and sluttier, I love it. That's what I'm looking for whereas they are looking for what isn't available anymore.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zinc4

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so is Zarky really a guy or girl..i thought guy but everyone keeps saying girl on here..why?
 
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