"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My favorite OLD messages to women who check you out but dont say anything

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I send a form of this message to women who check me out but don't say anything to me:

"Hey there. You are totally busted. Checking me out without at least saying Hello is against the rules and will not be tolerated.

We can discuss your punishment over a drink one night this week. Let me know what works for you.

BITG"

They eat that one up...gotten quite a few positive responses and multiple lays starting with that message...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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fullyawakened said:
Alphas don't do OLD and waste their awakened freedom with OLD women hiding behind their computers. Instead they go for quality escorts, strippers, and divorced older women spending their beta bucks. This is what the true awakened alpha does.

Wake up.
The trolls don't even take off on holidays I guess...lmao
 

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yannick43 said:
Hahaha that damn troll sucking is way back on here. Its a good thing that people are starting to notice who you are.

Don't feed the troll.

I never write back to women that checked me out, to be honest it means absolutely nothing. I checked out tonnes of women online some that where really ugly. So a women clicking on your profile can mean anything she thinks you are cuit or you are just butt ugly.


Like mister troll here you can't get any women and keeps getting rejected.
It doesn't always mean something, but sometimes it does...either way, the 30 seconds it takes for me to send that message has gotten me laid at least 4 or 5 times already...pretty good ROI
 

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fullyawakened said:
OLD has never worked for Eunuch43. So therefore it must not work for anyone. You must be lying. :crackup:
So why are you calling him Eunuch out of curiosity?
 

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fullyawakened said:
Instead they go for quality escorts, strippers, and divorced older women spending their beta bucks.
The DJ Bible says these are the women to avoid.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thread successfully trolled
 

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yannick43 said:
Yes good but anyways its still OLD, it works better depending on where you are me in Montreal its sucks.

Dont feed the troll.

So I'm expected to believe in a big city like Montreal OLD sucks? Or are you saying it just sucks for you because you aren't in good shape and/or put horrible pictures online?
 

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moreawakethanu said:
^^^This man is still asleep in his race car bed with his thumb in his azz like a child's binky pretending to be awakened.

Have to say I about fell out of my chair laughing at this as I attempted to picture this in my mind...LMAO!!!!
 

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Five minutes I'm never getting back.
 

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yannick43 said:
Well you been bragging a lot lately too then come back and report failure so....

Anyways like i said i really don't care about OLD or how well you are getting laid, its not a competition and people who come here to brag are idiots.

Like i said before i don't give a rat a$$ what people think of me, getting back in shape, still i got my fair share when younger so who cares.

Have fun with your OLD and your suppose bangs you are getting and your far away GF that you bang so hard each time you see her every six months..

Bragging ain't easy, well easier then trolling i guess.:crackup: :crackup:

Why do i even waist time replying to people who lie about how hot they are and there success with women, this board is packed with more and more losers every freaken day.

Bunch of Fvcking mama boys pretending to be men and getting laid here and there, like a good member on here that sadly does not post anymore said 99% of the people on here lie and are not what they seem to be, great shape hahha yeah that is my problem right there great shape i am old fat and ugly and i can't get any .... guess i am part of all you losers after all a real beta hiding being a alpha male profile.

I guess i done everything i could on this board like jesus to try and save so many idiots fvcking losers from there twisted faith and i did nothing.

So have fun pretending and writing all your lies, bunch of failed attention *****s.
I have no problems posting failures. It happens to everyone, no big deal. The last FR I posted I met up with a chick and got a handjob/bl0wjob in the car and fingered her while sucking on her tits. OK, I didn't fvck her, I guess that was a failure. I've posted a few other FR's that didn't work out, but its whatever. You aren't going to get laid or even want to get laid by every women you go on a date with. I have no idea why you are getting all bent out of shape over me basically calling it like it is. If you aren't in good shape and you put bad pics up, you are going to have a rough time on OLD.

As far as me bragging about it? I don't see what I'm bragging about...I'm simply posting FR's about what happened. I mean it's not like I'm posting everytime one of my plates comes over and I bang her.

I'm sorry if you have trouble getting laid bro, but that's not my problem. Do something about it then. Noone is making you read my posts, feel free not to if you get so offended.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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there should be a sticky somewhere that addresses 'bickering' in this forum. Bickering or arguing or being defensive/offended is an effort to get revenge or change someone elses opinion of you because they have hurt your ego. How can you be dj when you still care what others opinion of you are? This is the first rule of dj is to control the ego. If you cant do this then you wont become a dj, ever.
 

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switch7 said:
there should be a sticky somewhere that addresses 'bickering' in this forum. Bickering or arguing or being defensive/offended is an effort to get revenge or change someone elses opinion of you because they have hurt your ego.
We do have a stickied thread,a set of rules that addresses arguing and bickering between forum members,just 2 threads down below the "No Contact Challenge" thread............right here:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=206510

Doubt that anybody actually reads it,but it there.
 

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Yannick, you sexy beast. Take ANY 9 girl and give her an extra 60 lbs, and you will ignore her as well.

You have DJs in this thread that have put in thousands of hours of training and dieting to achieve their physiques, and OLD returns. And once you have attained a lower bf, you, TOO, will be banging hot 20-something yos from OLD.

WE are all fighting the same war: The war to become better men. This war is not easy. This war is not for the weak-minded. This war is fought ONLY by soldiers. Some soldiers have just entered the war; others are seasoned.

Soldiers don't abandon the war. Soldiers don't abandon their stronger and weaker fellow soldier brothers. Soldier rather die by the sword, then abandon the war and their fellow man.

YES, the war is tough. And the enemy is all around us. We are surrounded. But that's OK. As soldiers, That's what we do: We fight--and continue fighting and helping other soldiers to fight--until that beautiful day that we die. Because an honorable death fighting this war for ourselves and for our fellow man is "life"-- a life worth living. Everyone else who have abandoned this war long ago are already "dead."
 

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Yannick, once again you seem to think because OLD doesn't work for you it doesn't work, then get upset when people tell you the truth and say it works good for them.

So basically if you get laid, according to Yannick you are beta, a white knight, a liar, etc...sounds like someone is getting frustrated with their hand, lol...
 

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Guru a great post. Very true.

Back- Stop bickering with others users. You're better than that.

I liked this post- it's a great idea and when I was on POF 2 years ago i ended up dating a great girl for a few months who had checked me out but not sent anything.

Yannick You are welcome here- differing opinions is what SS is about. Learning from each other.

The problem Back and Yannick have is they believe only the seasoned DJs can teach them. But we learn as much from our peers and their failures as the teachings of POOK etc.

GROW UP EVERYONE and start improving the quality of this forum.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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