"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My fav girl responds once a day

sosousage

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Note I dont have plates yet but I am messaging with 5 girls nearly every day and get at least one date per week (but i could 5 if i wanted) so its not like I spamm them or not like I msg only one.


There was a case where I basically replied her once per day too and she was more active back then but I think I ignored her too hard and for her 4 messages I just replied good night after 24hrs lol


For example I texted her Ill oil her body and eat her out starting at mouth ending at puss at friday and she sent me only 2 messages since that

one of them "and you will go lower"
another one "what makes you horny"

so Should I be more active or less active talking with her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Billtx49

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Note I dont have plates yet but I am messaging with 5 girls nearly every day

For example I texted her Ill oil her body and eat her out starting at mouth ending at puss at friday and she sent me only 2 messages since that
No surprise there, you’re sounding needy, over bold, and insecure.
Seduction resides in your words and actions while on the date, not a printable diagram before it happens…
Do what you’re going to do in person and don’t brag about it to her beforehand.
Neediness resides in the desire to get her to agree in advance…
 
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marmel75

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You should be getting these women out once a week or once every 10 days. Less texting more action.
 
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