"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So recently we just got a transfer student added to my AP English class. She's quiet and seems shy. Usually I wouldn't ask a question like this but for some reason I'm stuck on how to proceed.

I want to bang her..she's a 7 with a BANGING body. But I don't know how to approach her. She doesn't sit near me so I don't have any idea on how to start a conversation with her. Every time I see her in the hall way she always seems to be in a rush so i don't how to proceed with this and I don't wanna look like a creep.

What should a youngmack do in this situation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah I feel you bro but we are COMPLETE strangers.... I justice need something to beak the ice between us.
 
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youngmack said:
a transfer student added to my AP English class.
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she is new, she has no friends in class. do you really think you need to say something supersophisticated in order to get her attention? just be nice and ask her how she is doing. dont be afraid to show some interest.
 
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You wanna know how to open with her? Simple - do what I call a "side comment." Basically, you come at her sideways by making a comment of some kind as if you've already talked to her before. Since you're in the same class it's even EASIER to do.

Next time you're in class together, pay attention to what the teacher is saying. Then, when class ends and you're walking out, make sure you're near the girl as you're leaving class. Then just say to her something like: "Hey - did you have ANY idea what the teacher was talking about when they said (blah blah blah) about (blah)?"

Since it's a question that's not about her, she won't feel like you're trying to hit on her. Therefore, if she has a b*tch shield it won't be up, and she'll answer your question. Depending on how she answers, you should be able to segue with "oh, okay, I thought that's what the teacher meant. I'm glad you knew 'cause I was getting confused their for a second. Oh hey, what's your name?"

And that's it. Yes, it's really THAT simple, but I find that, contrary to popular belief, most girls won't bite you when you approach them. Hope this helps!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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