"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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youngmack

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So recently we just got a transfer student added to my AP English class. She's quiet and seems shy. Usually I wouldn't ask a question like this but for some reason I'm stuck on how to proceed.

I want to bang her..she's a 7 with a BANGING body. But I don't know how to approach her. She doesn't sit near me so I don't have any idea on how to start a conversation with her. Every time I see her in the hall way she always seems to be in a rush so i don't how to proceed with this and I don't wanna look like a creep.

What should a youngmack do in this situation?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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youngmack

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Yeah I feel you bro but we are COMPLETE strangers.... I justice need something to beak the ice between us.
 

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youngmack said:
a transfer student added to my AP English class.
she is new, she has no friends in class. do you really think you need to say something supersophisticated in order to get her attention? just be nice and ask her how she is doing. dont be afraid to show some interest.
 

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You wanna know how to open with her? Simple - do what I call a "side comment." Basically, you come at her sideways by making a comment of some kind as if you've already talked to her before. Since you're in the same class it's even EASIER to do.

Next time you're in class together, pay attention to what the teacher is saying. Then, when class ends and you're walking out, make sure you're near the girl as you're leaving class. Then just say to her something like: "Hey - did you have ANY idea what the teacher was talking about when they said (blah blah blah) about (blah)?"

Since it's a question that's not about her, she won't feel like you're trying to hit on her. Therefore, if she has a b*tch shield it won't be up, and she'll answer your question. Depending on how she answers, you should be able to segue with "oh, okay, I thought that's what the teacher meant. I'm glad you knew 'cause I was getting confused their for a second. Oh hey, what's your name?"

And that's it. Yes, it's really THAT simple, but I find that, contrary to popular belief, most girls won't bite you when you approach them. Hope this helps!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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