"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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youngmack

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So recently we just got a transfer student added to my AP English class. She's quiet and seems shy. Usually I wouldn't ask a question like this but for some reason I'm stuck on how to proceed.

I want to bang her..she's a 7 with a BANGING body. But I don't know how to approach her. She doesn't sit near me so I don't have any idea on how to start a conversation with her. Every time I see her in the hall way she always seems to be in a rush so i don't how to proceed with this and I don't wanna look like a creep.

What should a youngmack do in this situation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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youngmack

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Yeah I feel you bro but we are COMPLETE strangers.... I justice need something to beak the ice between us.
 

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youngmack said:
a transfer student added to my AP English class.
she is new, she has no friends in class. do you really think you need to say something supersophisticated in order to get her attention? just be nice and ask her how she is doing. dont be afraid to show some interest.
 

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You wanna know how to open with her? Simple - do what I call a "side comment." Basically, you come at her sideways by making a comment of some kind as if you've already talked to her before. Since you're in the same class it's even EASIER to do.

Next time you're in class together, pay attention to what the teacher is saying. Then, when class ends and you're walking out, make sure you're near the girl as you're leaving class. Then just say to her something like: "Hey - did you have ANY idea what the teacher was talking about when they said (blah blah blah) about (blah)?"

Since it's a question that's not about her, she won't feel like you're trying to hit on her. Therefore, if she has a b*tch shield it won't be up, and she'll answer your question. Depending on how she answers, you should be able to segue with "oh, okay, I thought that's what the teacher meant. I'm glad you knew 'cause I was getting confused their for a second. Oh hey, what's your name?"

And that's it. Yes, it's really THAT simple, but I find that, contrary to popular belief, most girls won't bite you when you approach them. Hope this helps!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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