"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My Farewell Note

Tryin to Grow a Chin

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I think most anyone here can agree that this place has gone to shyt. When I joined a year and a half ago the forums were packed to the gills with useful information, sound advice, and knowledgeable posters.

Now, as has been widely observed, what we see is a shytload of mental masturbation and idiocy. Most posters are more concerned with theory than practice, as is evident by the extraordinarily low number of field reports that surface, and a preoponderance of trivial threads relating to very minor and piddling matters.

As such, I'm getting the fvck out of here in hopes that when I return someday long in the future, the place will have improved. In the meantime, I invite everybody who is ready to move past this bullshyt to join me at www.seductionbb.com .

Peace out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Vigilante7

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WOW

another forum

im on 4 diff forums now lol

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We still need someone like you to direct this place...
 

On_the_Top

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Since when has sosuave become Islam oriented. Is the new trend to take a piligramage atleast once in your sosuave membership life, to find your self and your DJism, only to return a few weeks or months later as a advisor.

Now its good taking time off the message board , internet , and the computer in general(trying to kick the habit myself, though I still need to utilize them for work and school :D ) does it require a Nixon style resignation speech? ;)
 

E-Z Rider

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Originally posted by Tryin to Grow a Chin
I think most anyone here can agree that this place has gone to shyt. When I joined a year and a half ago the forums were packed to the gills with useful information, sound advice, and knowledgeable posters.
lol- I was here a yr and a half ago, and people were saying the same thing then that you are now.
 
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Originally posted by Tryin to Grow a Chin
I think most anyone here can agree that this place has gone to shyt. When I joined a year and a half ago the forums were packed to the gills with useful information, sound advice, and knowledgeable posters.
Peace out.
If so-callled experienced and wise people like yourself leave this site then would this help this forum become better by your absence and others of your caliber?

If everyone thought like you and left only to come back when things get better, would things ever get better if these 'knowledgable' posters who gave sound advice and provided useful information leave sosuave? Huh?

Become part of the solution and share your wisdom!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tryin to Grow a Chin

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Why should I even bother? I have idiots replying to my lay reports with "you're full of shyt", "this girl's a ho," this is too much to believe," "no girl past age twelve is a virgin," and various other senseless challenges to whatever I post.

Perhaps I'll drop in and post more FR's/LR's in the future but beyond that I have virtually nothing to say to most of the other members of this site. Unlike many of you, I see no need to falsify anything I say on here, and I post my reports in hopes that I can help someone.

Challenge my tactics or motivations all you want, but please take what I say at face value. The girl most certainly was a virgin, but due to the skills and confidence I've gained by taking knowledge from this and other sites and actually going out and getting field experience instead of talking about it but doing nothing, I was able to create such an impression that she deemed me worthy to sleep with. She wasn't completely inexperieced, either. She had already done everything but actual intercourse. For Christ's sake, why is this so hard to comprehend?

I'm not having this argument, though. I just wanted to get that out. Adios.
 

Trapspringer

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I can understand the frustration at this site. It seems as when I joined, I caught the tail end of a great thing. This place seemed so cool with and had quite a few mature and wise posters that just do not
post any more. Most of the time I just give up when trying to offer adive to someone and some obvious DJ wannabe with little relationship experience just comes along and post some completely idiotic response that only confuses the person I wanted to help.

After a while, I began to take this place a lot less serious and stayed away from this forum but I agree with PR_Lover. If all of the mature and wise posters leave, there will be no sound minds to welcome and encourage other experienced people to stick around when they find their way to the site.


Who knows, maybe I will leave this site in the dust soon. I wish I could create another similar to it but you would have to have a credit card to prove that you are actually over 18 to join and post or something of that nature.
 

E-Z Rider

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enough with the nostalgia bit...

It's not like anything has *really* changed. There are still people who know their sh!t, and idiots.


For some reason, people always love to talk about how things USED to be better, and now everything sucks. But if you look at things objectively, more often than not there isn't much of a difference between past and present.

On almost every internet forum I've ever been to, people talk about how n00bs are ruining the board. It's really rediculous.

Even outside of the internet- people who love to say "life is so much worse now than it was 50/100/500 yrs ago. We're near the end. The Apocolypse is upon us!" When really, there is just as much corruption and immorality back in the past as there is now. People made these same predicitons 2000 yrs ago, and probably every six months since.

I don't really care if you leave- more power to you, do what suits you. But I get a little annoyed by people acting like this is such a crisis.
 

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in my opinion, i dont think the forums have gone to shiet.

although..there are many threads that seem very pointless (ex: READ MY AIM CONVO.....DOES SHE LIKE ME?!?!?!) People need to get past the fact not to take everything so seriously. I understand how these people feel....when i first started on the forums i also made these kind of threads but i realized that i should not take everyting to heart. But i believe that as time goes by people will start to understand and learn new things and soon enough..take these skills and apply them to real life.
 

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Man stop being so sensitive. "People are making fun of my lay report!!". You need some panties.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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