"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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my failure with women..i suck..always friendzone..

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well i seem to atract alot of women (not to brag) i get a decent ammount to aprouch me, when i liek one ill useialy get there msn or numbers, and well they allways seem to like me at first but i always turn it to frined zone after like a month, always because i am not assutrive enough to ask to hang or because i bable sometimes and talk too much (NOT ABOUT ME, JUST DRAG OUT CONVERSTAIONS AND MAKE THEM BORING) this has happened at least 5 or 6 times just this summer

i am 16 and what the **** do i do to get over this and start getting these girls to not put me in friend zone?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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CrazyGuy

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The Acacia Strain said:
well i seem to atract alot of women (not to brag) i get a decent ammount to aprouch me, when i liek one ill useialy get there msn or numbers, and well they allways seem to like me at first but i always turn it to frined zone after like a month, always because i am not assutrive enough to ask to hang or because i bable sometimes and talk too much (NOT ABOUT ME, JUST DRAG OUT CONVERSTAIONS AND MAKE THEM BORING) this has happened at least 5 or 6 times just this summer

i am 16 and what the **** do i do to get over this and start getting these girls to not put me in friend zone?
OMG bad spelling,bad grammar, whats liek?its like,aprouch?its approach dude type carefully when you type look at your keyboards :)

Oh yeah go read the DJ Bible it explains to YOU how you can get out of the friendzone and how to not get in the friendzone.
Comeon man everyone in is in the site,you just have to READ!
 

Phyzzle

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Maybe you should slit your wrists already.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJDamage

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The Acacia Strain said:
i am 16 and what the **** do i do to get over this and start getting these girls to not put me in friend zone?
There is a highschool forum on Sosuave so you are better off going there and asking those guys who are in a similar situation as you.

This forum is for those who have already completed highschool and are in the next stage of life where dealing with women is a whole other ball game.
 

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anyways arcadia getting women to like you at the beginning is all due to your physical attraction, if you are anywhere above average looking it's not hard to do at all

to keep the chicks you need DJ skills and techniques, which is exaxtly what you lack, go read the entire DJ bible
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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