"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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my failure with women..i suck..always friendzone..

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The Acacia Strain

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well i seem to atract alot of women (not to brag) i get a decent ammount to aprouch me, when i liek one ill useialy get there msn or numbers, and well they allways seem to like me at first but i always turn it to frined zone after like a month, always because i am not assutrive enough to ask to hang or because i bable sometimes and talk too much (NOT ABOUT ME, JUST DRAG OUT CONVERSTAIONS AND MAKE THEM BORING) this has happened at least 5 or 6 times just this summer

i am 16 and what the **** do i do to get over this and start getting these girls to not put me in friend zone?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Acacia Strain said:
well i seem to atract alot of women (not to brag) i get a decent ammount to aprouch me, when i liek one ill useialy get there msn or numbers, and well they allways seem to like me at first but i always turn it to frined zone after like a month, always because i am not assutrive enough to ask to hang or because i bable sometimes and talk too much (NOT ABOUT ME, JUST DRAG OUT CONVERSTAIONS AND MAKE THEM BORING) this has happened at least 5 or 6 times just this summer

i am 16 and what the **** do i do to get over this and start getting these girls to not put me in friend zone?
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OMG bad spelling,bad grammar, whats liek?its like,aprouch?its approach dude type carefully when you type look at your keyboards :)

Oh yeah go read the DJ Bible it explains to YOU how you can get out of the friendzone and how to not get in the friendzone.
Comeon man everyone in is in the site,you just have to READ!
 
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Maybe you should slit your wrists already.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJDamage

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The Acacia Strain said:
i am 16 and what the **** do i do to get over this and start getting these girls to not put me in friend zone?
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There is a highschool forum on Sosuave so you are better off going there and asking those guys who are in a similar situation as you.

This forum is for those who have already completed highschool and are in the next stage of life where dealing with women is a whole other ball game.
 
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anyways arcadia getting women to like you at the beginning is all due to your physical attraction, if you are anywhere above average looking it's not hard to do at all

to keep the chicks you need DJ skills and techniques, which is exaxtly what you lack, go read the entire DJ bible
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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