"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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my failure with women..i suck..always friendzone..

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well i seem to atract alot of women (not to brag) i get a decent ammount to aprouch me, when i liek one ill useialy get there msn or numbers, and well they allways seem to like me at first but i always turn it to frined zone after like a month, always because i am not assutrive enough to ask to hang or because i bable sometimes and talk too much (NOT ABOUT ME, JUST DRAG OUT CONVERSTAIONS AND MAKE THEM BORING) this has happened at least 5 or 6 times just this summer

i am 16 and what the **** do i do to get over this and start getting these girls to not put me in friend zone?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Acacia Strain said:
well i seem to atract alot of women (not to brag) i get a decent ammount to aprouch me, when i liek one ill useialy get there msn or numbers, and well they allways seem to like me at first but i always turn it to frined zone after like a month, always because i am not assutrive enough to ask to hang or because i bable sometimes and talk too much (NOT ABOUT ME, JUST DRAG OUT CONVERSTAIONS AND MAKE THEM BORING) this has happened at least 5 or 6 times just this summer

i am 16 and what the **** do i do to get over this and start getting these girls to not put me in friend zone?
OMG bad spelling,bad grammar, whats liek?its like,aprouch?its approach dude type carefully when you type look at your keyboards :)

Oh yeah go read the DJ Bible it explains to YOU how you can get out of the friendzone and how to not get in the friendzone.
Comeon man everyone in is in the site,you just have to READ!
 

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Maybe you should slit your wrists already.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The Acacia Strain said:
i am 16 and what the **** do i do to get over this and start getting these girls to not put me in friend zone?
There is a highschool forum on Sosuave so you are better off going there and asking those guys who are in a similar situation as you.

This forum is for those who have already completed highschool and are in the next stage of life where dealing with women is a whole other ball game.
 

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anyways arcadia getting women to like you at the beginning is all due to your physical attraction, if you are anywhere above average looking it's not hard to do at all

to keep the chicks you need DJ skills and techniques, which is exaxtly what you lack, go read the entire DJ bible
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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