"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My experience with an americanized chick

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Here is a story of my experience with an americanized chick.

I haven't dated americanized women in quite sometime, but last night I had the chance to give it a try again. A girl on a dating site sent me an email and i thought i would give her a chance

I should post the messages here for everyone to laugh at, but I will just provide a summary.

She sent me a message first and I replied and asked to exchange emails or numbers. Her response was to lecture me about the fact that women don't like to be pushed and hand out emails or numbers so quickly. (I was like WTF?)

My response was to chat with her, get her number, call her up and take her out for a late night coffee. Basically i made her do exactly what she said women like her don't do. I even had her convined that she had to do something crazy and quick! She went for it, and I took this chick out for a coffee at 12am ! lol I only had a 2 min phone conversation.

This woman 4 years older then me, had a cute face, and a fair bit of baggage. I was nice enough to ignore that and be understanding.

I was rather nice to her and I payed for the coffee and even opened the doors for her. We sad down and before I even had the chance to relax and open the lid of my coffee her mouth was shooting off. b1tch b1tch b1tch b1tch
I just sat there as she *****ed about her internet dating experiences and told me all about her baggage. She went on and on about guys profiles and the things that women hate about internet dating. Needless to say I was at a loss for words and I let her shoot off for a bit as I enjoyed the first few sips of my coffee. Sadly, just before I tried to engage her in a conversation she said, "why am i the only one talking here?" With a look of shock on my face I replied with, "ah don't worry, I am a good listener :)". Then when I actually had the chance to say something (after that awkard moment passed ) she interupted me a few times.

After that I realized that I had wasted my time and this girl wasn't ever going to show any level of respect. I just finished my coffee and ended it. I even gave her a 'friends hug' :) just for the sake of it.

This is exactly why I stoped dating americanized hoes. I'm not going to sit down and listen to a woman ***** and complain about men. That is very disrespectfull.


americanized women should be shot. :) :D
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Ah man... she sounds like a nightmare!

Someone should tell these women "NO WONDER YOU'RE SINGLE HONEY!!!!"
 

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oh and here is a tip .. during the conversation she gave me a fair number of hints that she wanted me to ask her out. I quickly realized that she was Attention wh0ring and just wanted to sucker me in for a rejection. (yes chicks do that)

I replied with, "I would consider taking you out, but I'm just not sure if you are serious". She didn't know how to respond to this. This was the key turning point. She had to either reject me and admit to her AWing or switch over to ASD and be a bit more accepting.
 
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Wow, internet dating? LMAO.

if you're going to find a b1tch on the internet to date at least make sure shes not fat.... you're pathetic.
 

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DasaniWater said:
Wow, internet dating? LMAO.

if you're going to find a b1tch on the internet to date at least make sure shes not fat.... you're pathetic.
He's pathetic?... I don't agree...
DasaniWater... Take your girlfriend to home coming yet? Learn to dance? Stil the one giving all the love and getting less back? Dude seriously, you are becoming a troll on this forum and you are staight up AFC... Its gonna suck when you need advice again... Sooner or later you will...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ok any guy who says american girls need to be shot deserve to be flamed. are you defending him? FCKING TRAITOR.
 

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DasaniWater said:
ok any guy who says american girls need to be shot deserve to be flamed. are you defending him? FCKING TRAITOR.
Youre a traitor to US MEN. You give in to your woman like the pvssy you are.

And what about how you have been treating your girl? Giving everything to her on a silver platter.... Do you REALIZE how much of a b*tch she is going to be for the rest of her life because of chumps like you? Do you?

It's people like you that have changed laws because whining b*tches complained about how they want "equality" and "fairness" with a side of "special privileges" cause they're women. All the time shafting the men.

You pathetic worm. You sicken me.
 

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DasaniWater said:
Wow, internet dating? LMAO.

if you're going to find a b1tch on the internet to date at least make sure shes not fat.... you're pathetic.
I haven't read your posts but I might yet for a good laugh. The sad thing is that I'll bet you have several internet dating profiles.

The fact is most people do have a profile up on a datign website. Every DJ knows It is a good source of women for your black book. :) Furthermore, most women would much rather get to know a guy from a dating site she is on then some loser that tried to give her his business card at a club.
 

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DasaniWater said:
ok any guy who says american girls need to be shot deserve to be flamed. are you defending him? FCKING TRAITOR.
you take things way to seriously. You need to chill out and have a good laugh.
 

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
Youre a traitor to US MEN. You give in to your woman like the pvssy you are.

And what about how you have been treating your girl? Giving everything to her on a silver platter.... Do you REALIZE how much of a b*tch she is going to be for the rest of her life because of chumps like you? Do you?

It's people like you that have changed laws because whining b*tches complained about how they want "equality" and "fairness" with a side of "special privileges" cause they're women. All the time shafting the men.

You pathetic worm. You sicken me.
well said.

A woman that complains about men is totally ****en uselss for a LTR.

I can honestly say that ever since I started Kendo (as a form of self improvement) I've come to appreciate the definition of respect. If you don't expect respect and give respect you won't get it. Most of the time that means you need to keep your mouth shut and listen.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Online Dating benefits those who are women and attractive men.

Everyone has baggage, but when a woman starts talking about exboyfriends/past dating experience, she sees you as a friend.

Kevin, your topic "Anti Slut Defence Defeated Instantly" I thought the topic was about how to open up a girl who may be playing hard to get, but it seems more like a post would fit this topic "My experience with Online Dating for the month of September" . I'd appreciate if my fellow DJers would follow a make topics with posts relevant for discussion. I wouldn't want to go around and post "Hot sexy babe pics" and then put a post filled with gay porn stars.
 

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Hitman10000 said:
Online Dating benefits those who are women and attractive men.

Everyone has baggage, but when a woman starts talking about exboyfriends/past dating experience, she sees you as a friend.

Kevin, your topic "Anti Slut Defence Defeated Instantly" I thought the topic was about how to open up a girl who may be playing hard to get, but it seems more like a post would fit this topic "My experience with Online Dating for the month of September" . I'd appreciate if my fellow DJers would follow a make topics with posts relevant for discussion. I wouldn't want to go around and post "Hot sexy babe pics" and then put a post filled with gay porn stars.
I wasn't going to write so much and then I made the mistake of posting without changing the title.
 
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