"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My experience with an americanized chick

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Here is a story of my experience with an americanized chick.

I haven't dated americanized women in quite sometime, but last night I had the chance to give it a try again. A girl on a dating site sent me an email and i thought i would give her a chance

I should post the messages here for everyone to laugh at, but I will just provide a summary.

She sent me a message first and I replied and asked to exchange emails or numbers. Her response was to lecture me about the fact that women don't like to be pushed and hand out emails or numbers so quickly. (I was like WTF?)

My response was to chat with her, get her number, call her up and take her out for a late night coffee. Basically i made her do exactly what she said women like her don't do. I even had her convined that she had to do something crazy and quick! She went for it, and I took this chick out for a coffee at 12am ! lol I only had a 2 min phone conversation.

This woman 4 years older then me, had a cute face, and a fair bit of baggage. I was nice enough to ignore that and be understanding.

I was rather nice to her and I payed for the coffee and even opened the doors for her. We sad down and before I even had the chance to relax and open the lid of my coffee her mouth was shooting off. b1tch b1tch b1tch b1tch
I just sat there as she *****ed about her internet dating experiences and told me all about her baggage. She went on and on about guys profiles and the things that women hate about internet dating. Needless to say I was at a loss for words and I let her shoot off for a bit as I enjoyed the first few sips of my coffee. Sadly, just before I tried to engage her in a conversation she said, "why am i the only one talking here?" With a look of shock on my face I replied with, "ah don't worry, I am a good listener :)". Then when I actually had the chance to say something (after that awkard moment passed ) she interupted me a few times.

After that I realized that I had wasted my time and this girl wasn't ever going to show any level of respect. I just finished my coffee and ended it. I even gave her a 'friends hug' :) just for the sake of it.

This is exactly why I stoped dating americanized hoes. I'm not going to sit down and listen to a woman ***** and complain about men. That is very disrespectfull.


americanized women should be shot. :) :D
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ah man... she sounds like a nightmare!

Someone should tell these women "NO WONDER YOU'RE SINGLE HONEY!!!!"
 

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oh and here is a tip .. during the conversation she gave me a fair number of hints that she wanted me to ask her out. I quickly realized that she was Attention wh0ring and just wanted to sucker me in for a rejection. (yes chicks do that)

I replied with, "I would consider taking you out, but I'm just not sure if you are serious". She didn't know how to respond to this. This was the key turning point. She had to either reject me and admit to her AWing or switch over to ASD and be a bit more accepting.
 
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Wow, internet dating? LMAO.

if you're going to find a b1tch on the internet to date at least make sure shes not fat.... you're pathetic.
 

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DasaniWater said:
Wow, internet dating? LMAO.

if you're going to find a b1tch on the internet to date at least make sure shes not fat.... you're pathetic.
He's pathetic?... I don't agree...
DasaniWater... Take your girlfriend to home coming yet? Learn to dance? Stil the one giving all the love and getting less back? Dude seriously, you are becoming a troll on this forum and you are staight up AFC... Its gonna suck when you need advice again... Sooner or later you will...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ok any guy who says american girls need to be shot deserve to be flamed. are you defending him? FCKING TRAITOR.
 

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DasaniWater said:
ok any guy who says american girls need to be shot deserve to be flamed. are you defending him? FCKING TRAITOR.
Youre a traitor to US MEN. You give in to your woman like the pvssy you are.

And what about how you have been treating your girl? Giving everything to her on a silver platter.... Do you REALIZE how much of a b*tch she is going to be for the rest of her life because of chumps like you? Do you?

It's people like you that have changed laws because whining b*tches complained about how they want "equality" and "fairness" with a side of "special privileges" cause they're women. All the time shafting the men.

You pathetic worm. You sicken me.
 

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DasaniWater said:
Wow, internet dating? LMAO.

if you're going to find a b1tch on the internet to date at least make sure shes not fat.... you're pathetic.
I haven't read your posts but I might yet for a good laugh. The sad thing is that I'll bet you have several internet dating profiles.

The fact is most people do have a profile up on a datign website. Every DJ knows It is a good source of women for your black book. :) Furthermore, most women would much rather get to know a guy from a dating site she is on then some loser that tried to give her his business card at a club.
 

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DasaniWater said:
ok any guy who says american girls need to be shot deserve to be flamed. are you defending him? FCKING TRAITOR.
you take things way to seriously. You need to chill out and have a good laugh.
 

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
Youre a traitor to US MEN. You give in to your woman like the pvssy you are.

And what about how you have been treating your girl? Giving everything to her on a silver platter.... Do you REALIZE how much of a b*tch she is going to be for the rest of her life because of chumps like you? Do you?

It's people like you that have changed laws because whining b*tches complained about how they want "equality" and "fairness" with a side of "special privileges" cause they're women. All the time shafting the men.

You pathetic worm. You sicken me.
well said.

A woman that complains about men is totally ****en uselss for a LTR.

I can honestly say that ever since I started Kendo (as a form of self improvement) I've come to appreciate the definition of respect. If you don't expect respect and give respect you won't get it. Most of the time that means you need to keep your mouth shut and listen.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Online Dating benefits those who are women and attractive men.

Everyone has baggage, but when a woman starts talking about exboyfriends/past dating experience, she sees you as a friend.

Kevin, your topic "Anti Slut Defence Defeated Instantly" I thought the topic was about how to open up a girl who may be playing hard to get, but it seems more like a post would fit this topic "My experience with Online Dating for the month of September" . I'd appreciate if my fellow DJers would follow a make topics with posts relevant for discussion. I wouldn't want to go around and post "Hot sexy babe pics" and then put a post filled with gay porn stars.
 

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Hitman10000 said:
Online Dating benefits those who are women and attractive men.

Everyone has baggage, but when a woman starts talking about exboyfriends/past dating experience, she sees you as a friend.

Kevin, your topic "Anti Slut Defence Defeated Instantly" I thought the topic was about how to open up a girl who may be playing hard to get, but it seems more like a post would fit this topic "My experience with Online Dating for the month of September" . I'd appreciate if my fellow DJers would follow a make topics with posts relevant for discussion. I wouldn't want to go around and post "Hot sexy babe pics" and then put a post filled with gay porn stars.
I wasn't going to write so much and then I made the mistake of posting without changing the title.
 
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