"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My Ex Is Contacting My Previous Ex.. WTF

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Is drama, egos, butthurt...nothing new.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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soulforge said:
Hey guys some advice needed here..

As you well know from my previous threads, i recently dumped a chick who i had serious oneitis for.. SERIOUSLY ASHAMED OF MYSELF!

This girl moved in with me for around 3 months, then chit just fell apart.. she definitely falls into the cluster b catiogary..

Rude, desrespectful.. lack of empathy.. she was also abig time wine bar girl.. possibly a ex raging *****!!

anyhow i recently dumped her.. changed my mobile number and went complete 100% no contact on her ass.. this woman was fuking cold and abusive!!

2 months of no contact.. and now she has contacted one of my previous exes through Facebook..

She messaged my previous ex, and said this....

"HI THIS IS SHARON.. I RECENTLY ENDED A RELATIONSHIP WITH ............ I NEVER MET HIS FAMILY AFTER 2 YEARS OF DATING.. I'M NOT SURE IF I REALLY KNEW HIM..
I DON'T INTEND TO CONTACT HIM EVER AGAIN.. BUT CAN YOU TELL ME IF HE WAS A MAN OF INTEGRITY?

My previous ex is infact a good friend of mine, and she called me immediately about this matter! I told her to block this abusive scum bag immediately... so now she has been blocked.

Looks like she at some point went through my mobile phone.. and took down details of my ex...

Now she is trying to get information off my ex from many years ago..

I want this scum bag woman out of my life forever.. she is a narcissistic abusive woman.. i was trying my best to heal with 100% no contact.. AND NOW THIS!

should i carry on with strict no contact?? Or message my ex and tell her that she is behaving like a stalker, and she needs to fuk off out of my life...

I am furious about her intruding in my private life, fishing for date..


How should i proceed? My previous ex has blocked her on Facebook..


Should i also remain no contact? And not feed her ego.. she obviously has questions that need answering.. best to starve her of the answers???

Damn i hate this woman.. i regret getting involved with this sloot
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You have blocked her and her hampster wheel is flying off of its bracket. She is trying to win the breakup.

Keep ignoring her. Do not reply do not engage. Have your friends and family block her also. She is a cluster b. She will need mental stimulation. You blocking and not engaging with her will force her to focus her attention elsewhere
 
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