"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My Ex Is Contacting My Previous Ex.. WTF

wifehunter

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Is drama, egos, butthurt...nothing new.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey guys some advice needed here..

As you well know from my previous threads, i recently dumped a chick who i had serious oneitis for.. SERIOUSLY ASHAMED OF MYSELF!

This girl moved in with me for around 3 months, then chit just fell apart.. she definitely falls into the cluster b catiogary..

Rude, desrespectful.. lack of empathy.. she was also abig time wine bar girl.. possibly a ex raging *****!!

anyhow i recently dumped her.. changed my mobile number and went complete 100% no contact on her ass.. this woman was fuking cold and abusive!!

2 months of no contact.. and now she has contacted one of my previous exes through Facebook..

She messaged my previous ex, and said this....

"HI THIS IS SHARON.. I RECENTLY ENDED A RELATIONSHIP WITH ............ I NEVER MET HIS FAMILY AFTER 2 YEARS OF DATING.. I'M NOT SURE IF I REALLY KNEW HIM..
I DON'T INTEND TO CONTACT HIM EVER AGAIN.. BUT CAN YOU TELL ME IF HE WAS A MAN OF INTEGRITY?

My previous ex is infact a good friend of mine, and she called me immediately about this matter! I told her to block this abusive scum bag immediately... so now she has been blocked.

Looks like she at some point went through my mobile phone.. and took down details of my ex...

Now she is trying to get information off my ex from many years ago..

I want this scum bag woman out of my life forever.. she is a narcissistic abusive woman.. i was trying my best to heal with 100% no contact.. AND NOW THIS!

should i carry on with strict no contact?? Or message my ex and tell her that she is behaving like a stalker, and she needs to fuk off out of my life...

I am furious about her intruding in my private life, fishing for date..


How should i proceed? My previous ex has blocked her on Facebook..


Should i also remain no contact? And not feed her ego.. she obviously has questions that need answering.. best to starve her of the answers???

Damn i hate this woman.. i regret getting involved with this sloot
You have blocked her and her hampster wheel is flying off of its bracket. She is trying to win the breakup.

Keep ignoring her. Do not reply do not engage. Have your friends and family block her also. She is a cluster b. She will need mental stimulation. You blocking and not engaging with her will force her to focus her attention elsewhere
 
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