my EX girlfriend who I had broken up with the previous year is coming to visit this holiday season during break from college. she's comin back to her hometown and she wanted to visit me and hang out again. we were talkin the other day for hours on AIM and cell and it seems like she wants to rekindle an old flame or at least see if I had changed. I haven't seen her since I broke up with her last february. do u think there's anything I should expect? I want to **** her badly but I want to take it slow, its quite obvious that she wants to mess around. any advice would be appreciated greatly.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
my EX is coming to visit and she wants me back
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She's your ex, why would need our advice on how to fvck her unless.........Is she that much of a *****? But seriously, you've banged her countless times before, she's the same person, you know how to get it done.
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dre007 said:
Well then you have no choice in the matter. You must proceed Pad Juan. It would be an insult to the force to not Dong her
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dre007 said:
hmm be careful though....I dont like the whole "College Atmosphere" changing her, you better wrap it up since I think she has already fvcked a lot of guy's. What I would do is get togethor like you said and THAT night fvck her and then tell her to leave because you have things to do...since you should. Dont call her or anything out of the ordinary, dont change your life because she came back and dont forget your a damn DJ! Act like it and start to get numbers again dont get oneitis! Good luck
Nightwing
Master Don Juan
Dude, you sure this chick isn't trying to get herself knocked up?? It's a tactic that chicks do when they are trying to sucker you back into their lives.dre007 said:
Be careful, there's a reason why she's your ex.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
Tell her the only way she'll see you if she takes it in the poopshoot. Cover your bases.
That answers many questions as to the future as well.
That answers many questions as to the future as well.