my EX girlfriend who I had broken up with the previous year is coming to visit this holiday season during break from college. she's comin back to her hometown and she wanted to visit me and hang out again. we were talkin the other day for hours on AIM and cell and it seems like she wants to rekindle an old flame or at least see if I had changed. I haven't seen her since I broke up with her last february. do u think there's anything I should expect? I want to **** her badly but I want to take it slow, its quite obvious that she wants to mess around. any advice would be appreciated greatly.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
my EX is coming to visit and she wants me back
- Thread starter dre007
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She's your ex, why would need our advice on how to fvck her unless.........Is she that much of a *****? But seriously, you've banged her countless times before, she's the same person, you know how to get it done.
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dre007 said:
Well then you have no choice in the matter. You must proceed Pad Juan. It would be an insult to the force to not Dong her
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
dre007 said:
hmm be careful though....I dont like the whole "College Atmosphere" changing her, you better wrap it up since I think she has already fvcked a lot of guy's. What I would do is get togethor like you said and THAT night fvck her and then tell her to leave because you have things to do...since you should. Dont call her or anything out of the ordinary, dont change your life because she came back and dont forget your a damn DJ! Act like it and start to get numbers again dont get oneitis! Good luck
Nightwing
Master Don Juan
Dude, you sure this chick isn't trying to get herself knocked up?? It's a tactic that chicks do when they are trying to sucker you back into their lives.dre007 said:
Be careful, there's a reason why she's your ex.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
Tell her the only way she'll see you if she takes it in the poopshoot. Cover your bases.
That answers many questions as to the future as well.
That answers many questions as to the future as well.