my EX girlfriend who I had broken up with the previous year is coming to visit this holiday season during break from college. she's comin back to her hometown and she wanted to visit me and hang out again. we were talkin the other day for hours on AIM and cell and it seems like she wants to rekindle an old flame or at least see if I had changed. I haven't seen her since I broke up with her last february. do u think there's anything I should expect? I want to **** her badly but I want to take it slow, its quite obvious that she wants to mess around. any advice would be appreciated greatly.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
my EX is coming to visit and she wants me back
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She's your ex, why would need our advice on how to fvck her unless.........Is she that much of a *****? But seriously, you've banged her countless times before, she's the same person, you know how to get it done.
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dre007 said:
Well then you have no choice in the matter. You must proceed Pad Juan. It would be an insult to the force to not Dong her
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
dre007 said:
hmm be careful though....I dont like the whole "College Atmosphere" changing her, you better wrap it up since I think she has already fvcked a lot of guy's. What I would do is get togethor like you said and THAT night fvck her and then tell her to leave because you have things to do...since you should. Dont call her or anything out of the ordinary, dont change your life because she came back and dont forget your a damn DJ! Act like it and start to get numbers again dont get oneitis! Good luck
Nightwing
Master Don Juan
Dude, you sure this chick isn't trying to get herself knocked up?? It's a tactic that chicks do when they are trying to sucker you back into their lives.dre007 said:
Be careful, there's a reason why she's your ex.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
Tell her the only way she'll see you if she takes it in the poopshoot. Cover your bases.
That answers many questions as to the future as well.
That answers many questions as to the future as well.