"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My (ex)girlfriend.

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Schotten

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STORY:
I had this amazing girlfriend that I really loved, and still love so much that half could be enough.. However we live quite far away from eachother, ~200km (125miles) so we can't see eachother everyday.. Nor every weekend.

So since we haven't been able to see one another that often, she has begun losing her feelings for me, and gain some for another guy, and therefor she have broken up with me.

It feels like I have to try to get her back as soon as possible, so that she will still have some feelings for me, and not yet have a relationship with that other guy... But how should I go ahead?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How should you go ahead? By FORGETTING about her. You can't get her back after SHE left YOU. Even if you do go back together after she dumped you, she'll probably have lost a fair bit of respect for you. It shows you are desperate. There are 3.3 billion other women out there, many of whom are better than your girlfriend.
 
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Schotten said:
STORY:
I had this amazing girlfriend that I really loved, and still love so much that half could be enough.. However we live quite far away from eachother, ~200km (125miles) so we can't see eachother everyday.. Nor every weekend.

So since we haven't been able to see one another that often, she has begun losing her feelings for me, and gain some for another guy, and therefor she have broken up with me.

It feels like I have to try to get her back as soon as possible, so that she will still have some feelings for me, and not yet have a relationship with that other guy... But how should I go ahead?
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Long distance relationships don't really work, move on.
 
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Why the fvck would you EVER go out with a girl whos over a 100 miles away?

And just for the record, you're in highschool, and have absolutely no idea what love is.

Move on, and forget about her. DO NOT be a little b*tch and try to crawl back to her. That is just sad.
 
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@Captain
You do have somewhat a point.

@It's-Me
They can. :)

@eaglez1177
I would go out with her, because I find her speciel.
Actually I'm not in highschool, since there is no such thing in denmark. I'm 18 and ready to move out, however considering my age I believe this is the correct place to post.
I do not intend to "crawl" back to her, as a matter of fact I want her to do the very same thing.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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