"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My (ex)girlfriend.

Schotten

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STORY:
I had this amazing girlfriend that I really loved, and still love so much that half could be enough.. However we live quite far away from eachother, ~200km (125miles) so we can't see eachother everyday.. Nor every weekend.

So since we haven't been able to see one another that often, she has begun losing her feelings for me, and gain some for another guy, and therefor she have broken up with me.

It feels like I have to try to get her back as soon as possible, so that she will still have some feelings for me, and not yet have a relationship with that other guy... But how should I go ahead?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Captain

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How should you go ahead? By FORGETTING about her. You can't get her back after SHE left YOU. Even if you do go back together after she dumped you, she'll probably have lost a fair bit of respect for you. It shows you are desperate. There are 3.3 billion other women out there, many of whom are better than your girlfriend.
 

It's-Me

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Schotten said:
STORY:
I had this amazing girlfriend that I really loved, and still love so much that half could be enough.. However we live quite far away from eachother, ~200km (125miles) so we can't see eachother everyday.. Nor every weekend.

So since we haven't been able to see one another that often, she has begun losing her feelings for me, and gain some for another guy, and therefor she have broken up with me.

It feels like I have to try to get her back as soon as possible, so that she will still have some feelings for me, and not yet have a relationship with that other guy... But how should I go ahead?
Long distance relationships don't really work, move on.
 

eaglez1177

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Why the fvck would you EVER go out with a girl whos over a 100 miles away?

And just for the record, you're in highschool, and have absolutely no idea what love is.

Move on, and forget about her. DO NOT be a little b*tch and try to crawl back to her. That is just sad.
 

Schotten

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@Captain
You do have somewhat a point.

@It's-Me
They can. :)

@eaglez1177
I would go out with her, because I find her speciel.
Actually I'm not in highschool, since there is no such thing in denmark. I'm 18 and ready to move out, however considering my age I believe this is the correct place to post.
I do not intend to "crawl" back to her, as a matter of fact I want her to do the very same thing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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