"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My (ex)girlfriend.

Schotten

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STORY:
I had this amazing girlfriend that I really loved, and still love so much that half could be enough.. However we live quite far away from eachother, ~200km (125miles) so we can't see eachother everyday.. Nor every weekend.

So since we haven't been able to see one another that often, she has begun losing her feelings for me, and gain some for another guy, and therefor she have broken up with me.

It feels like I have to try to get her back as soon as possible, so that she will still have some feelings for me, and not yet have a relationship with that other guy... But how should I go ahead?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Captain

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How should you go ahead? By FORGETTING about her. You can't get her back after SHE left YOU. Even if you do go back together after she dumped you, she'll probably have lost a fair bit of respect for you. It shows you are desperate. There are 3.3 billion other women out there, many of whom are better than your girlfriend.
 

It's-Me

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Schotten said:
STORY:
I had this amazing girlfriend that I really loved, and still love so much that half could be enough.. However we live quite far away from eachother, ~200km (125miles) so we can't see eachother everyday.. Nor every weekend.

So since we haven't been able to see one another that often, she has begun losing her feelings for me, and gain some for another guy, and therefor she have broken up with me.

It feels like I have to try to get her back as soon as possible, so that she will still have some feelings for me, and not yet have a relationship with that other guy... But how should I go ahead?
Long distance relationships don't really work, move on.
 

eaglez1177

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Why the fvck would you EVER go out with a girl whos over a 100 miles away?

And just for the record, you're in highschool, and have absolutely no idea what love is.

Move on, and forget about her. DO NOT be a little b*tch and try to crawl back to her. That is just sad.
 

Schotten

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@Captain
You do have somewhat a point.

@It's-Me
They can. :)

@eaglez1177
I would go out with her, because I find her speciel.
Actually I'm not in highschool, since there is no such thing in denmark. I'm 18 and ready to move out, however considering my age I believe this is the correct place to post.
I do not intend to "crawl" back to her, as a matter of fact I want her to do the very same thing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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