"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My ex contacted me after nearly 4 months of NO CONTACT

Lexington

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Continue to blow her off. All the evidence suggests that she is just using you. If she REALLY wants you, then it's up to her to prove it. Based on the information I have here, I'm guessing she'll try for a week or so and then disappear out of your life again.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonGorgon

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pvf94 said:
nah, the **** buddy thing is not an option for me. I would end up thinking about her all the time, when I can just get laid elsewhere. She hurt me when she left, I think the nail is in the coffin after a talk with my dad and you guy's input. But damn dongorgon, that is good ****.


I know I can **** her, but I'm gonna protect my heart and mind and not let her become a parasite. I'm just not strong enough to keep her as a fvckbuddy. It'd be nice, but she was my first love and all....gonna leave it be.

awwww.. ok ..
 
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