"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My ex contacted me after nearly 4 months of NO CONTACT

Lexington

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Continue to blow her off. All the evidence suggests that she is just using you. If she REALLY wants you, then it's up to her to prove it. Based on the information I have here, I'm guessing she'll try for a week or so and then disappear out of your life again.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pvf94 said:
nah, the **** buddy thing is not an option for me. I would end up thinking about her all the time, when I can just get laid elsewhere. She hurt me when she left, I think the nail is in the coffin after a talk with my dad and you guy's input. But damn dongorgon, that is good ****.


I know I can **** her, but I'm gonna protect my heart and mind and not let her become a parasite. I'm just not strong enough to keep her as a fvckbuddy. It'd be nice, but she was my first love and all....gonna leave it be.

awwww.. ok ..
 
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