"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My Effiminate friend and chicks

mahon83050

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I have a friend whom when people see him, alot think he is gay. He is not gay (atleast I do not think so) He does not talk like a fag nor does he act it (in what he says). However, he always wears skin tight clothes, is real skinny and has feminine mannerisms. What I do not understand is, the kid seems to pull alot of chicks. No, he does not have model looks either, but he is probably above average looking. He is the real artsy, cultured, gook cook, sophisticated type (as I am as well-except for cooking).

Everytime the kid goes out he seems like he hooks up or meets some chick. Some Romanian chick he just met in Chicago just flew out to NJ to hang with him this weekend.

Maybe I am a little Jealous, but I do not just get it. You would think most chicks would be turned off majorly, in a guy who is so non-masculine and seems in touch.


One thing though, I think he hits on tons of girls whenver he goes out and his success rate seems high to me (but maybe it is not) Any body else have friends or know someone who looks like a fruit but attracts chicks?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ebach

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What kind of mannerisms do you consider feminine? Do you know if the guy gets laid? People have different reactions to different people. Maybe he has something that promises great sex or something. I don't know. Those guys are probably gay but they do have sex none the less. Probably bi or something. What you think gets him the girls? You know him much better than any of us here.
 

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Well, you know peewee herman supposedly banged some chick inside of that big walk-through dinosaur in california while he was chasing after his gay bicycle. I think it's still there and if you are travelling between redlands and palmsprings you can possibly still see it, although there are massive amounts of casinos that popped up between now and that time along the highway there, so maybe they tore it down, who knows.
 
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chicksrock

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you need to have a good balance i think
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chicks dig guys with style...

but still be your alpha masculine self...

the above formula will help you pull HEAPS of chicks.. \
 

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Chicksrock sums it up perfectly as far as I am aware and this is exactly the sort of balance I'm keeping right now...and it appears to be working like a charm.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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