"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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are you anti-heroin?
anti-cocaine?
anti-steroids?
anti-gay?

never tried it?
 

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I did jiu-jitsu. That was pretty gay. If I was a male model, I'm sure I'd look into steroids. And hell yeah, I tried cocaine, several times, even crack. I never shot up, but I had some X once that was mostly heroin. And that's how I know those drugs are stupid, which has kept me from them for the past twenty years. I've tried them. I have an informed opinion.
 

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Sh! happens. Stop wacking it. Get some viagra or those D!ck pills from the gas station work fine.

Take them all the time when i know im going to be smashing for the first time or going to go out and get wasted. Work like a charm and you'll be able to f*ck a hole into a concrete wall if you wanted.
 

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Make sure it isn't a mental issue before treating a physical problem.
With my ex I had an issue with cuming too soon. I looked at pills, ****rings, gels. Since I broke up with her and have started fvcking other women I have discovered that the problem has disappeared completely and I am performing better than I ever thought I could.
It wasn't a penis issue (although Viagra would have masked the problem) it was a 'I don't want to stick my wang in this woman anymore' problem.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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All I know is if you don't **** a girl real good especially a new one your screwed.... No girl wants a limp ****ed boyfriend.... Do whatever you need to do to perform....Take something if you need the boost... no big deal.
 

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for viagra I heard all you need to take only half of a pill to work, and I will just tell you to use it if you really want to punish that girl puss, if not I don't think you should you can get depended of it with will make you never really work, also I heard some guys saying they really don't feel good using it, they get hard but can hardly get any good feling about it.

you really need to understand if you are really liking the girl or is just going with, I need to smash her to not look like a loser, also each guy is diferent, some will work with anything with a skirt, others need to like the girl to work well, understand what kind of guy you are and work on it
 

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for viagra I heard all you need to take only half of a pill to work, and I will just tell you to use it if you really want to punish that girl puss, if not I don't think you should you can get depended of it with will make you never really work, also I heard some guys saying they really don't feel good using it, they get hard but can hardly get any good feling about it.

you really need to understand if you are really liking the girl or is just going with, I need to smash her to not look like a loser, also each guy is diferent, some will work with anything with a skirt, others need to like the girl to work well, understand what kind of guy you are and work on it
Right! You should never fight the kinda guy you are, because it will mess up your mojo. Me, I'm a lover that will end up smashing one a whole bunch of times, multiple times a day and we will get hooked on each other. I can make mistakes and cheat, but i don't like to if the sex is good. But that's me, and trying to swap it for a multiple plates guy with no emotions actually kills my sex and my d1ck.
 

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Quote: Get some viagra or those D!ck pills from the gas station work fine.

Ah yes the d!ck pills @ the gas station, forgot those. they do work well without the viagra side effects. BTW, a valium will calm you down enough if you're anxious. And the thought of blowing your wad right through her, right out her backside can be a driving force too lmao
 

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Alcohol is definitely a contributing factor, as was tested fo me last night. Spend a whole day with a chick at a bar-b-q/ pool party, make all the right moves (which in a 6 hour span is too much work for a piece of ass), get back to her place and have a few more drinks........... We're in her room, a little foreplay and the next thing you know......my shvt doesn't work! She's sucking and pulling and getting into some awkward "look how hot I am" poses, but nothing!!! Damn alcohol!!!! I got home at 5:30 in the morning with no results. Now I'm back to square 1 of the dog and pony show to bang this one. WTF!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah i get the same problem sometimes, im 32 and ive even tried 100mg full dose viagra, didnt do much apart from flushed face and a headache

Dont let it get to you or be embarrassed, in my experience it affects the girl alot more, she starts thinking she is not hot enough, devastates her self esteem ect. Remember they are conditioned to think all men are horny sex addicts 24/7
I put it down mostly to porn ED and desensitization
 

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Right! You should never fight the kinda guy you are, because it will mess up your mojo. Me, I'm a lover that will end up smashing one a whole bunch of times, multiple times a day and we will get hooked on each other. I can make mistakes and cheat, but i don't like to if the sex is good. But that's me, and trying to swap it for a multiple plates guy with no emotions actually kills my sex and my d1ck.

Agreed! I'm a bit like that too. And I often get performance anxiety with a new chick.... Viagra takes care of that, so wtf... I use it. Im older and remember the days before viagra.. was awful... once I got comfortable with a women things were OK. But phuked me up for a while.
 

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Quote: Get some viagra or those D!ck pills from the gas station work fine.

Ah yes the d!ck pills @ the gas station, forgot those. they do work well without the viagra side effects. BTW, a valium will calm you down enough if you're anxious. And the thought of blowing your wad right through her, right out her backside can be a driving force too lmao
Hi Bitten, what are the gas station pills called?
 

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I don't remember the name, there's several brands. Usually behind the counter on the wall. They work well without the viagra side effect of having wood all night, face flush etc. I have used one of those pill cutters like they sell in CVS to cut viagra pills in half, works good.

Those bottles of liquid stuff they sell are good too, think they're called V2 or something like the, they make you cvm harder. Careful if you have high blood pressure like I do, too often might not be a good thing w/ the V stuff.
 
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Guys I wanted to update this thread to let you know I lost the plate that's referenced in this thread.

I went off on her a couple times. The time before my birthday was the last straw. I had been trying to get her back but it's done now officially cause she blocked me.

I'm still working on myself. Still working on my issues. There's no reason for me to go overboard like I do, even though the girl does something stupid.

This hurts though cause I guess I did like her. The good thing is I'm of course still moving forward and met another plate here recently that reminds me of all the good qualities of her :).
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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don't really know if you do like her or is your ego talking, that is hard sometimes, you thing you are doing all the right things to pull her then fail or you find out she is going out now with another dude, happens, learn from it and see what you can do to improve, dropping porn and fapping for sometime can help in the long run
 

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I wonder the harm that internet porn is causing so many of us here, its likely that many of these "problems" in young guys like most of us is just a case of watching too much porn and not getting aroused without it
 

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watching a dude bang a chick doesn't turn me on
I am actually quite surprised at how many men watch m/f porn exclusively and LOVE bj porn...

i just dont get it.

I have had performance anxiety on a few occasions, most were when a woman was "acting" sexy or is not able to fully let herself go in the bed with me.
 

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Guys I wanted to update this thread to let you know I lost the plate that's referenced in this thread.

I went off on her a couple times. The time before my birthday was the last straw. I had been trying to get her back but it's done now officially cause she blocked me.

I'm still working on myself. Still working on my issues. There's no reason for me to go overboard like I do, even though the girl does something stupid.

This hurts though cause I guess I did like her. The good thing is I'm of course still moving forward and met another plate here recently that reminds me of all the good qualities of her :).
Lol, man what did she do to make you go off?
 

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watching a dude bang a chick doesn't turn me on
I am actually quite surprised at how many men watch m/f porn exclusively and LOVE bj porn...

i just dont get it.
Right! And although I've been guilty of it in the past. I'm starting to believe that it's unatural. Just like feminism and homosexuality, I mean have you ever wondered what this society would be like without them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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