chinwaggler
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I think we all have/had a friend who does this... just tell them one day not to disrespect you in public... If they don't listen, ditch them.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
As I said, I RARELY ever hang out with these guys, this was the first and last time in months.DonGorgon said:You need new friends.. the women they will attract will prefer men like them and find you to be not cool... you need to hang with people like you.
I'm sorry to break this to you, but people that talk like that on myspace (with all the half words and ghetto slang and sh*t) don't have the right to live. At least stop being a friend with him.Vice said:So I go to hang out with my two buddies, and our personality types are total opposites. I'm left brained, analytical and organized, and they're both right brained and spontaneous, and kind of disorganized. They also dress kind of "scene". I'm friends with all kinds of people, and I rarely ever hang out with these guys and their friends because they're just too odd most of the time, so I just chill with them alone.
Anyway, one of these guys is a virgin, and has never kissed a girl before. And we're all hanging out, and he starts busting on me with "your mom" jokes. Now, when we're with people that all know each other well that's absolutely fine, but when there's people there that we've never met before it's just plain disrespectful. Funny thing is, he never behaves like this when it's just us guys.
So I decide to leave, because I was bored and they were drinking beer (Which I don't drink because it tastes horrible) and nothing else, and the general vibe was just boring. And the kids weren't too bright. I wasn't having, or being, fun. And this kid seized every opportunity to bash ANYONE's mom, and he wasn't even being funny about it. It's kind of like the low-status guy trying to put down those around him to make himself look better, when in reality he just looks like a tool.
So later I text him and say "you showed your true colors tonight" and left it at that. He tried calling me a few times and texting, but I ignored the bastard.
So now on MySpace he asks why I don't answer his calls, and I tell him because it's of the disrespect he showed me that night, and he replies with the following:
Keep in mind this guys is total AFC. Never even HELD HANDS with a girl until a few months ago, let alone kiss one. And he's giving ME advice on women?
And it seems to me that his excuse for giving me unacceptable second-class behavior was because the girls weren't available. Girls. His fvcking excuse is GIRLS. His way to make light of situations is to put down people's mothers? I know I may seem to be taking myself too seriously at times just even writing this thread, but come on! I laugh at myself when something FUNNY happens, like I trip over something or walk into a door, or even one time shut the car door and get my tie stuck in the door. That's funny. Those are the ways that I laugh at myself, not at some frustrated b!tch boy making fun of my mom to make others think he was funny.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
In that case, pull his card in front of the females next time he does this. And see how much he laughs at himself.:yes:Vice said:So I go to hang out with my two buddies, and our personality types are total opposites. I'm left brained, analytical and organized, and they're both right brained and spontaneous, and kind of disorganized. They also dress kind of "scene". I'm friends with all kinds of people, and I rarely ever hang out with these guys and their friends because they're just too odd most of the time, so I just chill with them alone.
Anyway, one of these guys is a virgin, and has never kissed a girl before. And we're all hanging out, and he starts busting on me with "your mom" jokes. Now, when we're with people that all know each other well that's absolutely fine, but when there's people there that we've never met before it's just plain disrespectful. Funny thing is, he never behaves like this when it's just us guys.
So I decide to leave, because I was bored and they were drinking beer (Which I don't drink because it tastes horrible) and nothing else, and the general vibe was just boring. And the kids weren't too bright. I wasn't having, or being, fun. And this kid seized every opportunity to bash ANYONE's mom, and he wasn't even being funny about it. It's kind of like the low-status guy trying to put down those around him to make himself look better, when in reality he just looks like a tool.
So later I text him and say "you showed your true colors tonight" and left it at that. He tried calling me a few times and texting, but I ignored the bastard.
So now on MySpace he asks why I don't answer his calls, and I tell him because it's of the disrespect he showed me that night, and he replies with the following:
Keep in mind this guys is total AFC. Never even HELD HANDS with a girl until a few months ago, let alone kiss one. And he's giving ME advice on women?
And it seems to me that his excuse for giving me unacceptable second-class behavior was because the girls weren't available. Girls. His fvcking excuse is GIRLS. His way to make light of situations is to put down people's mothers? I know I may seem to be taking myself too seriously at times just even writing this thread, but come on! I laugh at myself when something FUNNY happens, like I trip over something or walk into a door, or even one time shut the car door and get my tie stuck in the door. That's funny. Those are the ways that I laugh at myself, not at some frustrated b!tch boy making fun of my mom to make others think he was funny.