chinwaggler
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I think we all have/had a friend who does this... just tell them one day not to disrespect you in public... If they don't listen, ditch them.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
As I said, I RARELY ever hang out with these guys, this was the first and last time in months.DonGorgon said:You need new friends.. the women they will attract will prefer men like them and find you to be not cool... you need to hang with people like you.
I'm sorry to break this to you, but people that talk like that on myspace (with all the half words and ghetto slang and sh*t) don't have the right to live. At least stop being a friend with him.Vice said:So I go to hang out with my two buddies, and our personality types are total opposites. I'm left brained, analytical and organized, and they're both right brained and spontaneous, and kind of disorganized. They also dress kind of "scene". I'm friends with all kinds of people, and I rarely ever hang out with these guys and their friends because they're just too odd most of the time, so I just chill with them alone.
Anyway, one of these guys is a virgin, and has never kissed a girl before. And we're all hanging out, and he starts busting on me with "your mom" jokes. Now, when we're with people that all know each other well that's absolutely fine, but when there's people there that we've never met before it's just plain disrespectful. Funny thing is, he never behaves like this when it's just us guys.
So I decide to leave, because I was bored and they were drinking beer (Which I don't drink because it tastes horrible) and nothing else, and the general vibe was just boring. And the kids weren't too bright. I wasn't having, or being, fun. And this kid seized every opportunity to bash ANYONE's mom, and he wasn't even being funny about it. It's kind of like the low-status guy trying to put down those around him to make himself look better, when in reality he just looks like a tool.
So later I text him and say "you showed your true colors tonight" and left it at that. He tried calling me a few times and texting, but I ignored the bastard.
So now on MySpace he asks why I don't answer his calls, and I tell him because it's of the disrespect he showed me that night, and he replies with the following:
Keep in mind this guys is total AFC. Never even HELD HANDS with a girl until a few months ago, let alone kiss one. And he's giving ME advice on women?
And it seems to me that his excuse for giving me unacceptable second-class behavior was because the girls weren't available. Girls. His fvcking excuse is GIRLS. His way to make light of situations is to put down people's mothers? I know I may seem to be taking myself too seriously at times just even writing this thread, but come on! I laugh at myself when something FUNNY happens, like I trip over something or walk into a door, or even one time shut the car door and get my tie stuck in the door. That's funny. Those are the ways that I laugh at myself, not at some frustrated b!tch boy making fun of my mom to make others think he was funny.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
In that case, pull his card in front of the females next time he does this. And see how much he laughs at himself.:yes:Vice said:So I go to hang out with my two buddies, and our personality types are total opposites. I'm left brained, analytical and organized, and they're both right brained and spontaneous, and kind of disorganized. They also dress kind of "scene". I'm friends with all kinds of people, and I rarely ever hang out with these guys and their friends because they're just too odd most of the time, so I just chill with them alone.
Anyway, one of these guys is a virgin, and has never kissed a girl before. And we're all hanging out, and he starts busting on me with "your mom" jokes. Now, when we're with people that all know each other well that's absolutely fine, but when there's people there that we've never met before it's just plain disrespectful. Funny thing is, he never behaves like this when it's just us guys.
So I decide to leave, because I was bored and they were drinking beer (Which I don't drink because it tastes horrible) and nothing else, and the general vibe was just boring. And the kids weren't too bright. I wasn't having, or being, fun. And this kid seized every opportunity to bash ANYONE's mom, and he wasn't even being funny about it. It's kind of like the low-status guy trying to put down those around him to make himself look better, when in reality he just looks like a tool.
So later I text him and say "you showed your true colors tonight" and left it at that. He tried calling me a few times and texting, but I ignored the bastard.
So now on MySpace he asks why I don't answer his calls, and I tell him because it's of the disrespect he showed me that night, and he replies with the following:
Keep in mind this guys is total AFC. Never even HELD HANDS with a girl until a few months ago, let alone kiss one. And he's giving ME advice on women?
And it seems to me that his excuse for giving me unacceptable second-class behavior was because the girls weren't available. Girls. His fvcking excuse is GIRLS. His way to make light of situations is to put down people's mothers? I know I may seem to be taking myself too seriously at times just even writing this thread, but come on! I laugh at myself when something FUNNY happens, like I trip over something or walk into a door, or even one time shut the car door and get my tie stuck in the door. That's funny. Those are the ways that I laugh at myself, not at some frustrated b!tch boy making fun of my mom to make others think he was funny.