My DJ mindset is lacking, need advice.

[TheGambino]

I need some serious advice on my DJ mindset, it's lacking, I found out because of the feedback on my last posts and I see it myself.

Some of you guys know I got hooked up on playing poker a lot and wasted precious TIME to take care of my body and mind. Luckily I put a lot of money aside the past 6 months to start my own office.

So I started as a real state agent.

Then again, I got lazy, gained a lot of fat. 1.5 year ago I had a strict regime of working out and bought clothes every week to look on my best everday. My confidence was maxed out and I cold approached every week, got laid at least once or twice a week and got what I wanted from girls. That was my time.

Lateley I find it difficult. I even use my job to get in contact with girls and that's BAD.

I need back my routine of taking care of myself and using my normal strategy to fvck girls. That means for me, take care of myself, don't gamble, approach a lot and never have expectations of follow ups with girls.

I learned on Sosuave that money and having a company and all that doens't get you in too panties. It's your attitude, aloofness, kino and going for kisses and having fun that gets you there.

So i'm a guy with a new company without serious plates right know and I need to get to the gym asap.

Any other tips, advice from you guys?

 

[marmel75]

Going for kisses? That should be a given. Taking there hand and putting it on your erect c0ck while talking to them is what you want to be doing

 

[NSX-R]

I usually go back to my roots (reading the dj bible again) when i see my game lacks something along with some pause. Try it.

 

[dutchmaster]

Hey man, good place to look for advice. However, judging from your post. You lack the basic essentials. No one here is going to give you a shortcut. We can all offer advice, but if you're starting at square one you need to begin by reading all of the must read threads in the DJ bible. It will definitely give you a solid understanding of mindsets, kino, game etc.. Most importantly, you need to acknowledge that something with your current self isn't working and you need to build yourself up. Swallow pride, accept the loss and begin rebuilding.

A few basic pointers that you need to learn: However still go read the bible after this. This is just an introduction for you to smooth the transition.

Most importantly. You are the prize... Have you ever actually looked at an HB beyond her looks? 75% of these women are pieces of sh1t that bring nothing to the table in a relationship or to society other than their prized "golden p5ssy". Once you can see that you will understand they are nothing to get worked up over or waste your time analyze. It's simple. A girl shows you interest. If she meets your physical standard you reciprocate. Nothing crazy needed, forget all that push/pull, escalation etc. Now of course this is good to know, however once you are beginning to learn, you want to get comfortable at having a natural conversation with women. you're gonna look creepy and like a tool if you try to force game when you don't have any. If you can have a normal conversation with a fun flirty vibe with these women without drooling over them like an idiot, they're gonna love you for being different from the average shmuck who stares and keeps telling her how beautiful she is. She knows she's beautiful. Let her orbiters tell her that, you're there to fvck her not stroke her ego. Work on yourself, make yourself attractive. Go to the gym , get a good job, take care of yourself. NOT FOR WOMEN. I repeat, NOT FOR WOMEN. You are doing these previously mentioned things for yourself and your own image. There a plethora of benefits outside of getting p5ssy that come from being attractive. People treat you better, employers are more interested and you feel better about yourself.

Once you have built up your mental and created the proper mind state and physicality then you can learn game. It's a step by step process. The funny thing is, once you get all these inner thoughts and feelings under control. game comes naturally. You will naturally be hard to get, selective, and as long as you like talking to women and having sex, then act that way with them and the vibe will be light and flirty and eventually sexual. Once you become a high value man, you will realize your time is valuable and won't be wasted on just any girl with a p5ssy between her legs. You're going to start making these girls feel like they need to qualify themselves before you even exchange words. That's the point you want to reach and that's when having game comes in handy. For now, 1 step back, 3 steps forward is your motto.

Good Luck future DJ!

 

[Reykhel]

Mini Monk Mode..........(your inner game is a mess and it's manifesting into the physical.....eg putting on weight)

Improve SMV......then improve GAME