"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Ok, so here's the deal in point form:

*I'm at a party and I had a convo with this girl about my ex and a few other things.
*She has a bf who she's not happy with.
*I fooled around with one of her friends.
*Her friend really wants me. (social proof ;))
*She tells my buddy that she "has a crush one me" and that she think I'm really "nice and sweet".
*I want her.

How do I go abouts changing 'nice and sweet' so that she really wants to be with me. I'm thinking she's looking for someone to unload on. Like what's the best way to say I don't want to listen to your **** without looking like a total ****? Any ideas? Thanks for any help.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
The DJ bible is a great place to start!

I wouldn't talking about my Ex's if I wanted to get some.
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Already read most of it. :)

And we were talking about my ex b/c she brought it up b/c my ex told her a bunch of ****. Don't worry, I wasn't unloading or anything.
 
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You got 2 choices:

1) Go for it.
2) Don't go for it.

If you're gonna go for it (even though she has a BF which is a big red flag for me) then just lead the conversation. If she starts talking shyt or 'unloading', change the subject to something you wanna talk about. Like sex, or how similar or confident or witty you are (demonstrate, don't state).

Then make a move.
 
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Originally posted by FiveOneNine
*She tells my buddy that she "has a crush one me" and that she think I'm really "nice and sweet".
*I want her.

How do I go abouts changing 'nice and sweet' so that she really wants to be with me. .
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Hey knucklehead quit taking everything in the dj bible so literally - she likes you because of who YOU are????????????? Why change what she likes - be yourself - if you are man enough!!!!!

Just don't fall in love with this hor with a b/f!!! As most chumps do!!!!!:rolleyes:
 
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