"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My dilemma (help appreciated)

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Ok, so here's the deal in point form:

*I'm at a party and I had a convo with this girl about my ex and a few other things.
*She has a bf who she's not happy with.
*I fooled around with one of her friends.
*Her friend really wants me. (social proof ;))
*She tells my buddy that she "has a crush one me" and that she think I'm really "nice and sweet".
*I want her.

How do I go abouts changing 'nice and sweet' so that she really wants to be with me. I'm thinking she's looking for someone to unload on. Like what's the best way to say I don't want to listen to your **** without looking like a total ****? Any ideas? Thanks for any help.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FiveOneNine

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
The DJ bible is a great place to start!

I wouldn't talking about my Ex's if I wanted to get some.
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Already read most of it. :)

And we were talking about my ex b/c she brought it up b/c my ex told her a bunch of ****. Don't worry, I wasn't unloading or anything.
 
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You got 2 choices:

1) Go for it.
2) Don't go for it.

If you're gonna go for it (even though she has a BF which is a big red flag for me) then just lead the conversation. If she starts talking shyt or 'unloading', change the subject to something you wanna talk about. Like sex, or how similar or confident or witty you are (demonstrate, don't state).

Then make a move.
 
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Originally posted by FiveOneNine
*She tells my buddy that she "has a crush one me" and that she think I'm really "nice and sweet".
*I want her.

How do I go abouts changing 'nice and sweet' so that she really wants to be with me. .
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Hey knucklehead quit taking everything in the dj bible so literally - she likes you because of who YOU are????????????? Why change what she likes - be yourself - if you are man enough!!!!!

Just don't fall in love with this hor with a b/f!!! As most chumps do!!!!!:rolleyes:
 
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