"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My diet, be harsh please.

typical

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I still squat heaps, but I don't think I'm doing it to my full potential, I pu$$y out after I get up to 150 kg's, I keep thinking I'm going to collapse or something.

Seeing as Ive got today off, I'll go to gym later on and try and see what I push out at max weights then re adjust to lower weights and rework out my routine. Strength is there just a psychological thing, the size will come later i know, and people that have known me for years are saying I'm starting to look big again, even though I'm only 80 kg's, I reckon I'll feel better at 90 again another psychological thing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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150kg means you're starting to squat heavy. anything over 300 for a squat and 400 for a dead means you're lifting with the big boys. congrats. :D

and man.. 10kg of weight is a MASSIVE difference. you'll look and feel heaps better, I promise you.

I was soooooo proud when I hit 100kg. lol. was a milestone for me.

edit: but what took me from a chubby 93kg to a fairly lean 100kg in about 3 months was not a 6day split. ;)
 

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Yea it was them heavy squats deads and benchs, I think I'll have to go caveman for a few months and cut out the cute exercises that just fill in time. Rest of the night off, saturday here time to sort all this out, I'll stick up my new routine and edited version of the above diet and make this post sort of my journal. Wish me luck
 
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