"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My diet, be harsh please.

typical

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I still squat heaps, but I don't think I'm doing it to my full potential, I pu$$y out after I get up to 150 kg's, I keep thinking I'm going to collapse or something.

Seeing as Ive got today off, I'll go to gym later on and try and see what I push out at max weights then re adjust to lower weights and rework out my routine. Strength is there just a psychological thing, the size will come later i know, and people that have known me for years are saying I'm starting to look big again, even though I'm only 80 kg's, I reckon I'll feel better at 90 again another psychological thing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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150kg means you're starting to squat heavy. anything over 300 for a squat and 400 for a dead means you're lifting with the big boys. congrats. :D

and man.. 10kg of weight is a MASSIVE difference. you'll look and feel heaps better, I promise you.

I was soooooo proud when I hit 100kg. lol. was a milestone for me.

edit: but what took me from a chubby 93kg to a fairly lean 100kg in about 3 months was not a 6day split. ;)
 

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Yea it was them heavy squats deads and benchs, I think I'll have to go caveman for a few months and cut out the cute exercises that just fill in time. Rest of the night off, saturday here time to sort all this out, I'll stick up my new routine and edited version of the above diet and make this post sort of my journal. Wish me luck
 
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