How would you manage your life with one of these females in it? What boundaries would you have?
This time around I just wouldn't allow it to ever get that bad, by not allowing much emotional attachment, by accepting early on that I need to be ready to walk away at any moment, or if for some reason i can't physically remove myself immediately, I'll just ignore her.
In the past I just made excuses and coped via substance abuse, which made things worse and made me weaker. I just figured I was getting sex whenever I wanted, a free place to live, a car to use, and food, all for free so I tolerated it, but this was a poor decision. I could have kept all those freebies and just got more distant for even longer, except when I wanted sex, I could have just started being affectionate if I wanted sex and then for distant again.
Basically the boundary is ignoring her @ss when she's acting like a cold b1tch and eventually leaving.
She changed her attitude quick right before i moved out, asked me to stay, and I still left because I already know what going to happen. It felt good watching her be sad as I walked out the door. Stupid b1tch.