Shivastorm_88
Senior Don Juan
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It's basically a few points that I have to keep in mind when dating girls and looking for a LTR. Of course on those points there can always be some exceptions 
Dating Process
1) For the first 3-4 dates, I choose the dates, no exception, no compromise. If she doesn’t like my ideas, too bad. The point is to find the perfect girl that will like me and my hobbies, not to make a compromise.
2) I set dates over the phone (always make sure not to call the next day or the same day) and don’t keep contact with her in between dates.
3) One date per week for the first 4 weeks, and if she keeps saying yes, up it if I want too.
4) Don’t jump on a girl after only a few (2-3) action dates. After all, I am weeding out the girls for the perfect one, not to jump on the first one that I get a chance too.
5) If on action dates I keep getting good vibes, start planning romantic dates (IF the girl has passed all my expectations).
6) On romantic dates, escalate to kiss and more.
7) I go on action dates where I am comfortable enough to do by myself, because after all, the goal is to have fun on the date itself, no to have fun by being in the presence of the girl.
8) Keep the fun on me, not on her. She is merely tagging along in MY world.
9)If she flakes on me, she is not interested, therefore NEXT.
10) On the date itself, say the least things possible about yourself, unless she asks me.
11) On the date itself, show her by actions (escalating Kino, body language, eye contact, etc) that I am interested. If she rejects Kino, or her body language says she isn’t interested, NEXT.
Dating Process
1) For the first 3-4 dates, I choose the dates, no exception, no compromise. If she doesn’t like my ideas, too bad. The point is to find the perfect girl that will like me and my hobbies, not to make a compromise.
2) I set dates over the phone (always make sure not to call the next day or the same day) and don’t keep contact with her in between dates.
3) One date per week for the first 4 weeks, and if she keeps saying yes, up it if I want too.
4) Don’t jump on a girl after only a few (2-3) action dates. After all, I am weeding out the girls for the perfect one, not to jump on the first one that I get a chance too.
5) If on action dates I keep getting good vibes, start planning romantic dates (IF the girl has passed all my expectations).
6) On romantic dates, escalate to kiss and more.
7) I go on action dates where I am comfortable enough to do by myself, because after all, the goal is to have fun on the date itself, no to have fun by being in the presence of the girl.
8) Keep the fun on me, not on her. She is merely tagging along in MY world.
9)If she flakes on me, she is not interested, therefore NEXT.
10) On the date itself, say the least things possible about yourself, unless she asks me.
11) On the date itself, show her by actions (escalating Kino, body language, eye contact, etc) that I am interested. If she rejects Kino, or her body language says she isn’t interested, NEXT.