She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She invited him!!! You did know that, right? It was not a coincidence! This was all planned and he lived too far for him to pick her up and take back home -- so she invited you!!!BADA-BING said:As the night goes on we were out with friends drinking and having a good 'ol time she starts talking to this guy she knew that showed up to the bar. We ended up going to another bar and this other guy shows there too.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
thesynergist said:OR, you could further simplify your life by not going on dates with girls that regret having sex with you!
BADA-BING said:So i am seeing this chick, 25 yrs old, HB 7 very funloving girl. We have been hanging out and having a good time. Last sunday we went out and she ended up taking me home that night and we hooked up. It was great and she says the same. The next day (Monday) she emails me and says that we need to talk, im thinkin "uh oh".
Last night(tuesday) she somes over to pick me up and she says that maybe the sunday night hookup wasn't a good idea and maybe it was a mistake...blah blah blah...I like someone else...blah blahh... you get the picture. So I said "well its sounds like you have your mind made up, so I won't be a dingleberry nobody likes those." We left it at that because we were arriving at the bar we were headed to.
As the night goes on we were out with friends drinking and having a good 'ol time she starts talking to this guy she knew that showed up to the bar. We ended up going to another bar and this other guy shows there too. They proceeded to dance together and started getting touchy with each other. I was about to say something when this guys friend comes over and sits next to me and says "don't think about making a move because she is taken and youll get your ass kicked" There was four of them and I was by myself. I was like WTF??? i didn't know what to do at the time so I sat there and waited a little while before the bar started closing.
She eventually comes over to talk to me and informs me that she is leaving with this other guy. She is drunk and she drove and brought me, i was not quite so liquored up so i said "how do I get home?", she gives me her keys and says I'll take you to lunch tommorow if you take my car home and my friend. So long story short she left the bar with this other dude!!!!!!!!!(smacking my head on the pavement now) and I got stuck taking her friend home and taking her car to her house this morning. WHAT THE F*CK MAN!! I felt USED, and DISRESPECTED to say the least.
I am feeling extremely AFC right now. So once I dropped her car off i deleted her number from my phone book. I feel like revenge but she is not worth my time.
Maybe i should have called for a ride or something. But I do know that i need to study the bible hard to bust the AFC out of me.
How would anyone else handle this?
MacAvoy said:I would have said to the guys, "your right, she's not worth it, I'm out of here" and as I was walking away I'd say "ask your buddy later, how my cumm tastes"