"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My dancing goal is crazy...

SilverSonnet

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Anyone seen Step up 2 The streets? Well, if you have you'll know why this is crazy. If you've not youtube the trailer...

I want to learn to dance that fast, that well, and that stylishly. So, I'm joining a dance class soon, gonna improve stamina, flexibility etc and learn to dance like a street pro ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Go for it dude.

I took some lessons a few years ago but it became too expensive and I had to quit, but its great exercise and its fun to do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I haven't seen the movie, but I can only assume the dancing is off the charts. I encourage you to pursue the goal to its fullest extent!

I've been taking ballet for about two years now, and it is fantastic. Not only is a great physical activity, but as someone above mentioned, it is great for meeting women. On top of that, dancing is yet another skill that will simply give your life more dimension.
 

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if you wanna break and do choreographed hiphop, your age is the best to learn. but don't do it to pull females, it won't help. don't be like Napoleon Dynamite going "chicks dig guys with skills". Do it because you think dancing is cool and want to learn

a lot of my friends are professional dancers. if you ever watched America's Best Dance Crew, one of my friends taught members of both jabba and kaba. other friends of mine judge comps and battles around LA and OC, at my age they're pretty much OG's now. and they all have girl problems for lack of game, not lack of dance talent
 
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I'm doing it because I think it looks cool, and extremely fun to do. There's just one problem.
I'm from the UK, and I have no clue in my area on where to go to learn this type of dancing.
And to whoever told me it's stupid. At least I aim high because in my heart and mind, I know if I put willpower to the action, I'll achieve this immaculately, and then I'll be back to tell you that I've done something, instead on sitting on my laptop telling others that they cant achieve what they want to do.
Goodbye:D
 
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