"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My dancing goal is crazy...

SilverSonnet

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Wouldn't you like to know? ;)
Anyone seen Step up 2 The streets? Well, if you have you'll know why this is crazy. If you've not youtube the trailer...

I want to learn to dance that fast, that well, and that stylishly. So, I'm joining a dance class soon, gonna improve stamina, flexibility etc and learn to dance like a street pro ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Go for it dude.

I took some lessons a few years ago but it became too expensive and I had to quit, but its great exercise and its fun to do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I haven't seen the movie, but I can only assume the dancing is off the charts. I encourage you to pursue the goal to its fullest extent!

I've been taking ballet for about two years now, and it is fantastic. Not only is a great physical activity, but as someone above mentioned, it is great for meeting women. On top of that, dancing is yet another skill that will simply give your life more dimension.
 

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if you wanna break and do choreographed hiphop, your age is the best to learn. but don't do it to pull females, it won't help. don't be like Napoleon Dynamite going "chicks dig guys with skills". Do it because you think dancing is cool and want to learn

a lot of my friends are professional dancers. if you ever watched America's Best Dance Crew, one of my friends taught members of both jabba and kaba. other friends of mine judge comps and battles around LA and OC, at my age they're pretty much OG's now. and they all have girl problems for lack of game, not lack of dance talent
 
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Wouldn't you like to know? ;)
I'm doing it because I think it looks cool, and extremely fun to do. There's just one problem.
I'm from the UK, and I have no clue in my area on where to go to learn this type of dancing.
And to whoever told me it's stupid. At least I aim high because in my heart and mind, I know if I put willpower to the action, I'll achieve this immaculately, and then I'll be back to tell you that I've done something, instead on sitting on my laptop telling others that they cant achieve what they want to do.
Goodbye:D
 
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