"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
My DAM PARENTS CHEATED AND LIED TO ME!!
- Thread starter Rint
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
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backbreaker
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Bible_Belt
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backbreaker
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just kidding, no amount of money can make me move to that country
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
You could aways join the military, they pay for college education.
Skilla_Staz
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OfficeSpace
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Somehow I think this thread is whoring for attention. But common, you're punching ****ing holes in your wall... No wonder your parents give you so much ****.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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You walk into a decent tailor shop with 5000 bones you come out with one shoe and a sleeveless shirt.
I still say give 'em a columbian necktie.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
2) get some help, punching holes in the walls is not NORMAL, cool or healthy...you got some major problems
3) leave your parents bee. Carma is a *****. When they are 80 years old and are in the nursing home, with nobody visting them..... they'll be paying for it.
check_mate_kid_uk
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Rint, I'm telling you to move the fvck out. Since you have a job, you should be able to find someone to live with and pay rent until you can get your own place. If the parents are causing that much frustration and problems in your life, then kick them out of your life. Also, change your bank account number, move to a different branch, or even a different bank. It'll fvck them up when they try taking money out of a closed account.
If you don't work at fixing your situation, you've only got yourself to blame for putting up with it. You've been shown where the door is, all you have to do is go through it.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
RedPill
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spider_007 said:
True...but if he had 50K (from wherever source)...that is HIS money. The parents can manage that money...but they cannot just arbitrary go out and spent it and used the "we are raising you" as an excuse.penkitten said:
Now...you are right about the other part...if they can't pay rent or afford feeding him...
But I'm not a lawyer. And I don't know everything in this story. There always two sides to a story. And this kid lives with his parents so he should follow their rules...or move out.
I was lucky, my parents where like the coolest ever, and its like their entire goal of life has been the one of being good parents, which they've certainly been.
I can definitely sympathise with you, it's like this in sweden too, children have no right in a court, and if he's going up against the parents, he's definitely fryed.
leave home man, divorce your parents, and never see them again...even if they gave birth to you, there is some limits to abuse, and they've totally crossed that border by now...just make sure you can support yourself on your own before you leave home...get a job or some ****, and have someone you thrust manage the money.
Agreed. Minors are basically helpless against their parents, short of physical abuse (and often even then). The most frustrating thing in the world is to have your rights walked all over without being able to do a thing about it. Luckily, Rint, Desidinova is right in that at this point you have the freedom to leave so it is up to you to do so, otherwise everything you are subjected to is a result of your choice not to. Your parents shouldn't have done what they did, but unfortunately it doesn't look like the law would agree. Still, spend some time researching what you can do.Desdinova said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.