"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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my computer is ruining my life!!!!!!!!!

toddC

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i had some what of the sameproblem as you...only i didn't getoff my computer because ofa video game called COUNTER STRIKE!

What I did was just realize that everyone else I knew washaving so muchmorefun OFF the computer and I just FORCED myself to stop using it so often.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have a home bussiness so its not as bad to be on the computer all the time but sometimes I can't seem to get off the computer either. You're not alone, you just need a dream.
 

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i am kind of starting to feel the same way, i don't have too many problems but i think pulling the computer apart is something i might do (or take a vital component out and get rid of it) as i am spending a bit too much time on it. If i actually need to use it for work or study purposes later on i will still have it. this will probably be my last post on this site as i think it has served its purpose. so long.
 

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I'm the same way. Don't dismantle your computer. Instead when ever your friends go out, have them drag you out with them. Eventually if you start going out a few nights a week you meet new people, and then you start to go out with them.

Rinse and repeat. Like another post said, the computer isn't your problem. Boredom is, find something to spice up your life.

On a side note, I've got to follow my own advice.
 

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My computer is too useful to stop using, so i will only use for short periods of time. The internet is the only problem i sort of have.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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