"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My coke addiction =(

Capitol39

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Coca-Cola that is.

No, this isn't a joke. I must have a very addictive personality.

At least I've given up smoking. I've given up drinking. I'm eating better--except for drinking at least two Cokes/Pepsies a day. It was actually MUCH easier for me to quit smoking and drinking than it is for me to quit cola.

It's really hard to stop drinking them. I don't think it's the caffine. I prefer caffine-free cola, and I hate coffee.

Does anyone else have a similar addiction problem? Did you get over your addiction and if so, how?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ofus

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I used to drink 6+ cans of Code Red every day and I never drank any water.

I just started replacing soda with skim milk and bottled water, not all at once but gradually (i.e. I could have 3 cans max/day, then 2 cans, etc). It's hard at first, but once you break the habit (new habits are formed in about 30 days) it is much easier.

If you feel like you have to have a coke, keep it to 1 at most per day. And if you have a "cheat day" in your diet you can drink a bit more coke then also.
 

KiLLer

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Easy bro, after you finish all of your cans, don't buy no more.
 

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The main thing is replacing it with something you like. If you don't like water but you try to drink it, you're going to go back to your pop habit pretty quick.

Just find something you like to drink that is health. For me, I drink a lot of juice since I don't like water unless I'm working out. Sure, it'd probably be healthier to drink water, but it's better to drink juice than pop.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lt dan

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just stop. start drinking juice and shlt. do you have a reason for stopping. i stopped cuz i heard it mmade you run better. havent had one for three years
 

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Sit down one weekend with a few cases of your favorite soda. Start chugging. Drink it until you puke. Then drink more until you puke. Then drink more. Then drink more. After a couple of pukes from the same soda, you'll stop craving it so much. Eat some mexican food too, maybe some french fries, or a burger - anything that will make the pukes more memorable.

I've never tried this, but who knows, maybe it will work. If it does, let us know.
 

Lt dan

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yeah, then patrick swayze can clean it up. lol
 

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Originally posted by Ofus
I used to drink 6+ cans of Code Red every day and I never drank any water.
I think just hearing this is enough to gross me out and turn me off to soda. ;) I mean, I know Coke and Pepsi are bad, but Code Red is on a level all it's own.

I tried drinking water cold turkey for three weeks, but some how I got back on to cola. So I think I'll start replacing cola with milk or juice, and eventually get down to water.

Thanks, guys.
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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Soda's main ingredient is fructose. It's a very strong sweetner formed of sugar cane and is cheaper to produce than sucrose,
marked often as corn syrop or HFCS.

The human body doesn't handle fructose well, at all.
Processing fructose robs the body of calcium, can cause severe liver disfunction and a crap load of other problems including the onset of type 2 diabetes.

Fructose is everywhere. Read LABELS!!!!!!!!! and avoid it at all costs.

That should be reason enough to stop the soda habit.

The Bad Ass Canadian
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I also have a Soda Addiction I can't stop. I have gone from 5 2 liters a week, to just about 2 2 liters a weeks. Still bad, seeings how when I was younger, I was lucky to get 1 can of soda a month.
 
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